Is s*x without a condom a lot different?

Question

I just started taking birth control a month ago, and now that I have completed one full cycle it is safe to start having s*x without a condom. My husband and I have always used condoms so this will be the first time without.

Is it a lot different? It seems like it might be kind of...um...gross. What am I supposed to do after to "clean up"?

Answer 1

For a guy it feels better and for my wife she says it feels better... as for the clean up just a towel works fine.

Answer 2

ooooh brotherman gonna be in ectasy heaven.  

clean up? since you're on the pill he can ejaculate/*** inside ya now.

Answer 3

The guy can feel a lot more, so he is likely to ejaculate faster. For a girl, you won't ever feel the 'pull' of the condom if you are a little dry. And as for cleaning up... go to the bathroom and let gravity do most of it. Then just wipe up.

Answer 4

s*x with out a condom definitely feels different. you can feel each other a lot more and its a very intimate thing. I really hope that you both have been tested before you have unprotected s*x. That is so important.

As for being gross, there is nothing gross about it if you love each other it will be something your enjoying and sharing together.

To refresh yourself after the deed you can just use some wipes like baby wipes or feminine cleansing wipes and clean up that way or take a warm washcloth and wipe down that way. but if he ejaculates inside of you there shouldn't be too much of a mess.

Answer 5

Get ready for the ride of your life its so much BETTER and once use have done the do why don't use go for a romantic bath together.xx

Answer 6

Without might be a bit better for you because a condom sometimes feels too dry pretty quickly and p***s-skin doesn't need as much lube... but it will definitely feel a *lot* better for your hubby with nothing in the way of the feeling of your wetness and texture inside.

Cleaning up is just a matter of draining/wiping a bit and having a shower/bath... together, if you're still feeling romantic after s*x.  :-)

Being able to go condom-free is one of the great joys of a man's s*x life, believe me.