Is she interested????

Question

I am kind of confused in general sometimes about women. Just when you think you know them they throw you a curve ball. So pretty much to break it down. I met this girl at a club through mutual friends in a VIP party and we started makin out and then the following days lead to us both being interested in one another. We began seeing eachother but going into it. I had foundout her husband recently passed away. She was also a few years older then me and the niece of a girl im friends with who just turned 21 that night (im 25, and coming out of another girl situation I asked in Psychology section) So we stopted seeing eachother a few weeks into it. Then I just let her be and didnt contact her until 3 1/2 months later and to my surprize when I called her she was real open and cool with me. She also told me that not too long ago she was by my house and going to stop by but couldnt find it. And also that her female roommate was tellin her she said call me but she was nervous she said. She was glad to hear from me but then in the coming weeks I deicded to see if she wanted to hangout so I texted her on a wednesday night trying to make weekend plans cause she works night, and I work days.

She responded and didnt ignore me but she had plans and we didnt end up hangin out. Then a waited acouple more weeks and told her kind of at the last minute I was having a party thru a text message but she said she was already at a party. I mean atleast she responded but thats been 2 times already in the texts I feel I got "dissed" is she not interested???

Answer 1

You could of been in a rebound. She may just be trying to be nice and wants to avoid you.  

Answer 2

Seems like she just want you as her rebound. be smart and dont fall for her trap. it Seemed to me that she wants to be with and talk to you only when she feel like.. jUst let her go, ignore her calls.. and move on. Find someone else and move on before its too late.