Is she playing games?

Question

I just broke up with my girl. We have seen eachother a handful of times since. She has been asking for some space, but yet we text a few times each day. Today she went to the lake with her friends, and I asked if I could join. She said if i wanted to. I took it as an opportunity to hang out with her and I drove out to meet her. When I walked up she was in the lake and she gave me a half smile and waved like she was happy to see me. When she came back over to her friends she was cold. I tried to sit next to her and she would stand up. I tried to stand next to her she took a step away. I drove an hour and a half only for her to tell me ten minutes after I was there that they were leaving soon. She was there 30 minutes after I drove an hour and a half to go see her. She texted me tonight and said sorry I didnt know you were coming. I replied make it up to me and let me take you out on a date. No reply.

Answer 1

She want to know something from you so dont worry for thing which she done to you  

Answer 2

no she isnt playing games  

Answer 3

Could be games or a mixed up lady. my money is on games. one way to resolve it either way,leave her alone. I mean don''t even respond to her texts for a few days. {Weeks?} if she's confused, it'll give her time to think. If she's playing games, she might realize this is a good way to lose a good man.{You are a good man, right?} Go out on a few casual dates with other ladies. It might wake her up. Or it might wake you up.

Answer 4

I think you like her way more than she likes you. I think she still have not yet recover from you breaking up with her....so thats why she's acting cold. She's acting distant from you, but I think she still have feelings for you. Just that she's still have the thought of you breaking up with her.

If she doesn't reply back then you do nothing about it. Just let it be. If she really likes you then she would say something back or contact you back later on.  

Answer 5

Has there been a fight, or conflict leading to the break up? Seems like she obviously still has feelings for you, but something is stopping her from being as close to you as before. There are doubts, definitely. If you already know whats making her insecure, try to gain her trust once more - this is never easy and takes alot of time.

If you are unsure of her actions, try to find time to have coffee, chit-chat and slowly talk things out without pressurising her. I don't think she's playing games, she just seems unsure, and looks like she did not mean to cause you hurt delibrately.

If she wants space, back up and give her some space. Hopefully she'll realise how much she misses you.

Good luck.

Answer 6

Maybe she still loves you, but now has someone else. There might have been someone at the lake she had her eyes on. When someone asks for space, they are trying to figure out what they want.

Answer 7

i thnk she wants u she jus cares 2 much of wht her friends thnk of u cuz believe me dey knw yall broke up but wht dey dnt knw is dat she text u behind closd doors and dats wrng of her 2 put u out dere like dat and makn it look like u cumn on 2 her and she dnt wnt u 2 but she is reallt cumn on 2 u sit her dwn jus da 2 of yall and tlk about all yall lil problems dar yall got and try 2 get a understandn of each otherat was wrng of her 2 hve u drive 1 and a hlf hour 2 c her and 30 min after u get dere u ready 2 go she needs 2 grow up and b a woman and stop wit all dese bs games dat no 1 has time 4 lt her knw dat u been 4 real wit her  

Answer 8

Dude thats games! Serisously leave her be she aint worth the hassle!  Sounds too me like shes using you and keeping you hanging so if she cant find anyone else she will come running back! Leave her alone thats the start of a bunny boiler!

Answer 9

i did this to one of my passed ppl.shes confused. she doesnt know what she wants. yes its games.