Is she really my best friend?

Question

My so called best friend is all over me one week and the next week she's not sitting by me at lunch she wtalks about me behind my back and then the next week she's all over me again. And this really pisses me off that she does that. She's breaking my heart, because she's the only friend I really have. Then she says she calls me and she does and she jjust calles like nothing happened and after she calls me the whole weekend she completley ignores me and doesn't talk to me. And the other day I told her I was heart broken and she said who broke your heart? I thought she would know. She thinks she can just keep coming back to me. I don't know to hold on or let go of her please help!

Answer 1

Well I think you should talk to her, because maybe she's got something on her mind, or somethings happening at home or something.

I don't know, it's a bit odd her doing this to you, but just try talking.

And if she hasn't got a good reason, go find other friends.

Good Luck xx

Answer 2

I would say she's not really your friend.

But still if I where you I would tell her what her deal is.

Talk to her and tell her that you don't like it when she,

Ignores you. and That she means alot to you and you don't know why she's doing this..

Hope this Helped.

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Answer 3

poor you. i know exactly how it feels to know how lost and confused you are. anyways do u think she's doing the same thing with other friends and people? of it is then you have to know that she is mentally ill and that you have to go on with her like she is normal, but if she really is normal then i think that its all about girl's rudeness and jealousy, ( you know rude girls) anyways its better if you let go of her and her mean friendship, although you understand it in a different way like you really want this thing to go on. and make new friends and never talk about her behind her back. don't do these nasty things she is doing to u. i don't know if your thinking of some kind of revenge but i really hope that you don't make any huge scenes and all that. good luck with your friend and if not then good luck in your new friendship.

Answer 4

She ain't your friend. Friends stick together.

My first friend used to be like that i met him in year 3 he was a f*g all through primary school and the majority of high school, now in year 10 we have become the best of friends. I did'nt think he was a good friend back then but now i know he is a good friend.

Answer 5

She might be someone you know, but doesn't act like best friend material.  If you can't talk to her and straighten it out, then do the following:

     - ask yourself if you are being too clingy and needy.  Are you depending too much on her for your happiness?  You can't smother people, honey.

     -start treating her like a casual acquaintance, cause that's what she is.  You can be glad to hear from her when she calls, but your life and happiness do not depend on her!

      

Answer 6

Just confront her saying..

Dude, one week you're all cool with me but the next you're a complete *****, what's with that. Do you even like me?

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