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Is she rebounding, confused, unstable or all 3?

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She and her ex (together for 2 yrs) have a disagreement and the ex asks her to leave the house

She leaves and stays with her mother for a couple of weeks.

Two weeks later she leaves the current guy (in one state) and runs off to be with the online guy (in another state).

Two weeks later the online guy proposes, she accepts.

She says she loves the online guy and he says he loves her (within 2 weeks of being together).

Three Months Later

She's no longer living with the online guy BUT they are still engaged

She still communicates with the ex (via IM and TEXT)

She says she still loves the ex, the ex still loves her and wants her back

She says she's "not sure if she and the ex can get back together because she's with you know who..." [her exact words]

She's agreed to have dinner with the ex when she comes back in to town in a couple of weeks.

She does not know why she accepted the online guy's proposal.

Whenever she speaks about future plans, it never seems to include the online guy.

She wants the ex to be her friend for right now.

She says she confused about EVERYTHING.

Can you make heads or tails of any of this?

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  1. She is desperately looking for something and she has no idea what it is. She has to fill her own void, nobody else can do this for her. I would suspect that she had some kind of childhood trauma. If all these guys are in love with her and she doesn't love herself then she is very confused about how anyone can love her. Rebounding? No. Vulnerable, maybe. Confused, absolutely.  


  2. Poor girl doesnt know wat she wants she should break all contact with the two of thm and see how she feels in  a couple of months.

  3. Honestly, I think you both need to move on. It sounds like the online guy was a rebound and she knows it, but she broke up with you for a reason too. Just take some time apart and let yourselves figure out what you really want out of life.

  4. Sounds pretty unstable to me. If you can't live you life with forethought and consideration for anyone other than you self, there's definitely issues. If your one of the guys, run and fast.

  5. I think she is an insecure girl who needs someone by her side to make her feel loved and validate her existance.  It is really sad and the truth is that she isn't ready emotionally to be with anyone, she needs to work on herself.  She is too insecure and has too low of a self esteem to realize this now.  My advice would be to support her and be a good friend while she is going thru this because she is going to need one.

  6. She wants to have her cake and eat it too. There's probably a third or fourth guy too.

  7. she seems to be a little touched

  8. Some people live in a circus world, and this girl is a prime example of what I am talking about. If you don't like circus worlds, never get involved with some one that lives in one.

  9. my brain just farted after reading all that.  Can't help you, sorry.  She crazy!

  10. She needs to make up her mind....heads or tails.

  11. She is not mature enough for a successful relationship with anyone. It doesn't matter her biological age.
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