Is she trying too hard?

Question

My firend is trying to get pregnant. and when she is having s*x with her boyfriend, she tells me he is coming inside her 10X and there are times when he comes in her 9X. I'm sorry for being graphic, but its conception. I personally think its overloading her system and she wont get pregnant doing it the way she is. Am i right? And what is the best and fastest way to get pregnant?

Answer 1

It won't "overload her system".  However, a man needs at least 24 hours to build back up his supply if he has a normal sperm count.  Most doctors will agree that having s*x every other day with one ejaculation per time is more than enough to get pregnant.  I am seeing a specialist and my husband has no issues with his sperm count or quality and we are instructed to have s*x every other day.  I would recommend that they follow this schedule or if she insists once everyday would do.

Also stress can cause things not to happen.  She needs to relax and maybe that will help.  Sometimes it just takes a while.  Please share with her that healthy couples can take up to 1 year to conceive.

Best wishes for your friend!

Answer 2

noo lol i believe that someone that is doing that so much it is more likely it will get there. give herself sometime, it will be positive eventually.

Answer 3

After the first ejaculate the second is going to have few sperm, and anymore after that is just a waste of time. A man needs to replenish his stock. I found that when we have s*x LESS we get pregnant. In the months where we do it every day it just doesn't happen.