Is shyness in itself a form of controlling behavior?

Question

actually im not referring to shyness as controlling the shy person but others.

Answer 1

I don't think it is, because I don't think shyness can be controlled.  And if shyness can't be controlled, then neither can the behavior that goes along with it.

Answer 2

no, not really. It kind of helps people shy away from being controllive, actually. But people could take advantage of shyness.... just a warning....

Answer 3

Great question!

I think it might be, the shy person is trying to control their self from "giving in" to their surrounding? Just a thought-might be wrong

Answer 4

In a way, yes. Your critical inner voice tells you to stop doing certain things to "protect" you. I put that in quotes because in reality, it's harming you. It's not helping you speak out in the real world and stand up for yourself.