Is started off as just casual s*x, but now...?

Question

My casual s*x partner been acting strange. First of all he said "You made a connection with me." I didn't ask him what he meant, I kind of made a joke of it, but then he told me I'm the only girl he's been with since me. We've been friends, hanging out and having s*x for almost a year. Then he asked if I had been with anyone else and I said no and he said that's good. Also while we were having s*x he said "Do you want this ...forever?" I moaned as he said forever and I think he wasn't sure I heard it, because right away he asked again and emphasized the word "forever." I said yes and then he kind of laughed like nervously.

Could he be really starting to have feelings for me? He has also recently started talking about things we can dotogether outside of the bedroom, like with his friends.

Answer 1

Things like what, go to church?

Answer 2

Sounds like he wants more and you don't.

Answer 3

oh yea he definetly catching feelings for you

Answer 4

I don't get you kids today and your casual s*x.  "Do you want this forever?" probably meant he wanted hear if you wanted him to "love you long time" in the same vein as "could you go all night?"   If you are already "friends" and you "hang out" then don't you already do things outside the bedroom?

Do you introduce him to people as your "casual s*x partner"?  If not, try that.  That'll make things *real* clear for him.

Answer 5

your friend has found a connection to you and would like to expand this relationship. How do you feel about this? If you don't want this to go further then you need to nip this in the bud and if you do want to make a go of it talk to him.

Answer 6

If you are not serious about him, then you need to break off this relationship. That is the problem with casual sexual relationship at some point one of the partners becomes emotionally attached.

Answer 7

is this bad? if so, you should probably break it off with him before he gets more into you.

Answer 8

From what i'm reading i'd say he's falling for u  and if thats not what u want i would end it so u r not leading him on. U r a good person for being honest with urself now b honest with him. good luck

Answer 9

lol yea he wana be with you for more than s*x.  

Answer 10

Uhm, sorry but guys don't have casual s*x with a woman for a year without committing, if they're truly interested.

If you haven't yet had 'the talk' (OUTSIDE of the bedroom- this is very important!) then I would move on and find a guy that DOES want a commitment. (If that's what you're looking for.)

Answer 11

If this isn't what you want out of the relationship girl, it's time to pull back...danger lol. Seriously, he sounds like this is getting to be more than a physical relationship for him.

Answer 12

sounds like he is getting feeling for you, thats whatt my friend did, but i dropped him before i realized it, but it didnt matter cuz i wasnt wanting anything else from him!

if you dont want this, talk to him or cut him off.

Answer 13

You should decide if you want more for him.  He obviously has fallen for you.  

  Best of Luck to You and Take Care

Answer 14

He's in love with you,like it or not and now he can't live without you and you don't want no part of it.

Answer 15

You need to consult the dictionary because its quite obvious that you don't know the meaning of "forever".  Of course he is starting to have feelings for you and it doesn't appear that you are able to return those feelings.  If all this is for you is casual s*x I would break it off now before he falls any deeper.  I'm thinking that your "yes" was half hearted and that you really don't see a you and him outside the bedroom.  Be fair to him.  

Answer 16

Your not ready for seriousness in your life. You still wanna clown around. Let him know your still interested in whoring around.

Answer 17

It's pretty obvious isn't it? He has feelings for you and wants to take it to another level. Such as it is. If you aren't prepared to do that you might be wise to break off the casual thing with him. It's only making him want more.