Is the fact that undesirable men approach attractive women a result of society's view of women as inferior?

Question

Seldom you see it the other way around.

I'm talking looks, education, jobs, culture etc...

Answer 1

The basic ideology is that if she is "so fine" that good looking guys are afraid to approach because of getting shot down, where as a not so good looking guy has nothing to loose; but don't always judge a book by its cover. one never knows you, may make a friend.

Answer 2

Your absolutely right, when will the ugly learn their place?

The answer is no, but this question is very elitist

Answer 3

That is fact huh? I must have been absent that day they were teaching it in school.

Men pursue women to begin with, and is still somewhat taboo for women to approach men, so your "observation" is nothing profound. Also, these men may approach women, but how many women actually date and marry men who earn and have attained a significantly less income, education, etc, but men do this all of the time.  

Answer 4

No.  Look at me telling a woman what a woman wants.  Oh well, here goes.  Yes, women are attracted to attractive looking men.  However, the most attractive attributes of men to women are intangibles.  Confidence, intelligence, wit, humor, ability to make them feel comfortable, good about themselves and feel alive.  These are things that can be taught to any man who wants to learn.  This is why some "undesireable" men are very successful with beautiful, successful women.  If you still view these men as undesireable after talking to them for 5 minutes, you should blow them off.  They have more learning to do.  Just like a woman who wants to attract more men can get makeup, perfume, hair dye and designer clothes; men who want to attract more women have to appeal to what attracts them.  Usually, that has very little to do with physical beauty.

Answer 5

Its all comes down to one thing really.. breeding.  

Answer 6

they don't. the majority of men will be apprehensive about approaching a gorgeous girl.i'm sure hardly any totally stunning women get chatted up in a serious sense, maybe a wolf whistle or something.

and what is desirable to you and me won't be to everyone

Answer 7

You know I think you may be on to something. The most unattractive greasy stupid dudes come up to me and I know I'm WAY out of their league!!!  I don't get it!

You never see attractive dudes with ugly women. Always the other way around.

Answer 8

I doubt most of the men you would classify as "undesirable" would categorize themselves that way.  

Men are often intimidated by attractive women.  I've heard a lot of hot girls saying that guys are scared to ask them out so they are intrigued by pretty much any guy who has the balls to approach them.  

I don't think it has anything to do with society's view of women and more to do with the fact that a man is biologically programmed to seek out as many women to impregnante as possible.  He has to spread his genes around.  

Answer 9

idk maybe

Answer 10

Perhaps men don't view of as us inferior but  rather some women see themselves as superior....perhaps some women have an overinflated sense of self worth.

Answer 11

Maybe not.  I think that the undesireable men either have money and think that makes them look better, or they really think they look good and can get any girl.  

Answer 12

No, it's just that a man's ego is usually pretty inflated. Women are just smart and save time.

Answer 13

I see it the other way around. Kudos to an ugly man for having the balls to step up to a beautiful woman...its called confidence.

Now you show me a beautiful woman who approaches a ugly man.....

Answer 14

Well...unless you are wearing a sign around your neck saying what your "turn-ons," "turn-offs," and life's goals you never know if you're someone's idea of a good match.  It never hurts to try.  Though you don't sound much like you're one of those "it's what's on the inside that counts too" type people.

Answer 15

So are you saying that it's unnatural for an "ugly" man to be attracted to a beautiful woman? Just because you're ugly doesn't mean that you should limit who you're attracted to.  Personally, I would rather go out with an unattractive or average looking guy who is fun to be around than go out with a very attractive, but conceited jerk. For the record, many people have told me that I'm much more attractive than average (and no, it wasn't just guys who were wanting to get in my pants). There have been times when I was interested in a guy who was average or slightly less attractive than average because he was intelligent or otherwise had a great personality.  On several occasions, I was the one initiated flirtation between us, and was later told that they hadn't even bothered because they didn't think that they had a chance. In short, it's stupid to say that ugly men approach attractive women because they think that women are inferior. It's because they like attractive women and have self confidence, end of story.  

Answer 16

You are on to something a lot bigger than what your question asks.  Modern America is the product of mass media overload and we have all been showed what we are to think is "attractive" and what is "undesirable".  Think to yourself of what you think makes you attractive or what your flaws might be.  These images will most likely be drastically different to another person though if you were to get their opinion.  There is no perfect in this world, therefore we all have flaws that make us beautiful in our own light.  

Answer 17

I think it has more to do with what the media is drilling into our heads. We're literally being programmed what to think is "hot" and "not"

Every advertisement you see, every show, every movie...they always have "beautiful" people. The world isn't filled with models everywhere, and it gives people a false reality of what's beautiful and what isn't.

And this includes everybody that watches tv...even the "undesirable men."

Hope this helped! :D