Is the first time of s*x always like this?

Question

Me and my boyfriend had s*x just a few hours ago. Well, for the most part I did not enjoy it at all. It hurt and did NOT feel good like everyone makes it out to be. I didn't have an o****m, I just faked it. It was really frustrating. Help ! does it get better or what?

Answer 1

it gets better dont worry x)

Answer 2

How does a guy fake an o****m?

Answer 3

if you didnt enjoy it at all then your not into him are you?

Answer 4

s*x DOES get better after the first time

Answer 5

Practice makes perfect!

Answer 6

bro i dont think your gonna get one the way youre doin it.

Answer 7

since it was your firstt time,,

i wouldnt make any assumptionss,,

i would try it again,,

and see if you feel the same wayy,,

and i wouldnt fake an o****m,,

because then he thinks your enjoying it,,

when in reality your not,,

and if he ever found out it could crush his confidence.

but im sure it will get better for youu.

Answer 8

it gets better, My first time felt good, but everyone is different. Maybe your a top and not a bottom, maybe you were thinking to much to enjoy it. Next will be better believe that and don't think so much about it.

Answer 9

Sounds like my first time lol.  Yeah it gets better!

Answer 10

Usually it gets better. And maybe next time you should let him receive

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Answer 11

Yeah, if it was done right, the pain should subside and you should enjoy it.  there are many reasons why it wasn't as enjoyable for u...from not relaxed enough, not enough lube, your partner not taking the time to make sure that you were comfortable and ready before he plunged in.  Both partners could have been inexperienced... a variety of factors could have played a part in the experience.

Answer 12

was it anal or oral?

Answer 13

yes, it gets better.  First time is always unpleasant.   Usually its a rushed thing, and you need to take it very slow (don't start with the end-goal...).

It was probably a surprising experience for you both.  talk some more about what worked and what didn't, and then try again.  everyone wants to be 'great in bed' but we are all terrible in the beginning.