A man started talking to me when doing the school run. I thought he was just being polite. On every occasion he sees me alone he talks to me. I grew quite uncomfortable with this when he knocked my door one day. He knew i have a boyfriend.
My partner answered and told him i wasnt home. My partner was livid and wanted to say something, but he is hot tempered and i didnt want confrontation as i have to see this man all the time.
He has asked me out for coffee and i said no. He has invited me to his house for coffee and i politely blew him out by making excuses.
He talks to other mums sometimes but they dont seem to be held back by his conversation. Other mums have said he seems to prey on women with one child.Some have said he is homeless. The other mums he talks to are middles aged and pbviously married.
I then started to avoid him, and walked a different way to miss seeing him. He has never touched me or said anything direct. It would be easier if he had as i would inpolitely tell him where to get off.
His child is in middle school, mine is in lower school. He is 55 , I am 27.
I just bumped into him on my way to the shops and politely spoke about the weather etc. I bumped into him again on my way back and he rooted me to the spot. He repeatedly asked to take me out for a drink, lunch, and remebered my b.day this week said he'd like to take me for a birthday meal. I made excuses about a babysitter. He asked me to walk his dogs with him and i said i didnt fancy it.
In the end i said id let him know. I pretended to put his number in my phone, hen he asked me to ring it. I said i didnt have any credit. So he asked for mine. I said i had to go after i gave it to him. As i walked away he said 'is that a yes then?' and i said no its an i'll let you know.
I felt really backed into a corner, i didnt know what to do and i cant believe i got tricked into himgetting my number.
What shall i do?
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