Is there a disadvantage for people that has everything?

Question

what i am saying is that people that had everything in life, does this mean that they won't become successful later on in life or will not be able to go to college.

i was adopted when i was a baby by my mother's sister and i had a lot more stuff than my brothers and sisters did and right now i have no job and no way to go to college, so i'm starting to wonder if maybe its because i had everything earlier in life? if anyone can give me any advice i would love to hear form you. thanks!

Answer 1

You never learned to overcome challenges. Never learned the value of hard work, never had to set goals to progress towards them...now you are on a level playing field with everyone else.  You need to be a quick learner or you'll continue to have nothing.  No one really has everything.  You thought you had everything but you lacked experience, ambition, and to be able to value what you had and how hard it was to actually provide such a lifestyle.  You need a job...make some money, save and invest. Learn to value money and balance current wants and needs with goals and desires.  You can start by welcoming me to Walmart.

Answer 2

we will have to have both dualities and we cannot say no to one and accept one. Swamy Vivekanda's father has advised him not to surprise for any thing. in life we will have  to accept what ever we receive as gifts. have positive thoughts for our welfare.

Answer 3

No the problem is that you are lazy.  Get a job, and instead of smoking pot in all of your time off, try going to night school. They even have financial aid for those who actually need it.

Answer 4

A luxury once experienced once lived becomes a necessity,

With this in mind youll find if you never knew electric lights existed

you only had kerosene lamps you would be totally use to having

a elctric light lit rather than a kerosene lamp ever again once you have

flipped on a electric switch the same way people with dirt floors

think its o great to have wooden raised floors covered by carpets

which allot of our suburban kids have never had to endure.

Whether its a lack of having or a lack of having a experience of having.

We miss what we have lived with for we come to be accustomed tot he

standard of living so when kids go off to college and have toshare a room in a dorm its a imposition to share a bath and a room with a stranger or strangers to have to put up with their hygen habits or lack off.

you cn be as successful as you plan in your life witha will to be.

Where there is a will to planned out a life can be lived as comfortable as you wish it to be. to have all the heart desires. just make the will to have and to never to do without ever I came from severe poverty and

now live a failrly elitist top 10% worldly life and will until I die

I planned to do even better but health broke my planning but still did

not end my desire to live out never knowing hunger never being to cold

or out of fashion or tooo hot or too bored. Bu tto be happy as I can be

all the days of my life and never to be alone for I have friens who share

those goals and when My time comes to move to a care

facilutity I will have the resources to mergeinto that life style hen time comes for that care faciluty for active elderly too. FOr I pushed away the fears of not being good enough and not having to stive to live

in the most expensive state in the most exspensive country

affording my self every  luxury I missed out on from childhood.

I relish my life every day now without the burdens of work and

with the resources to live this life until there is no more life in me.

cheers  Live life and love it if it doesnt make you happy make it

and work harder till it does. Save your money and be a spendthrift

when your young allow yourself little gifts of luxury like a eclair

with a starbucks or cream cheese and fruit and a bagel on a veranda

ia exotic exspensive five star five diamond hotel in a big city

overlooking things like the golden gate bridge watching life of t big city.

Then when your old buy a hotel and do it every day from your penthouse patio. Witha beautiful companion 10 years your youth.

cheers live it love it and prosper longevity.

Answer 5

Well, there's a theory that if you always have things handed to you, you never learn the concept of working towards getting what you want.  It makes sense... why would you get everything you ask for for 18 years, and then all of a sudden be expected to "understand" that you can't always get what you want?

Answer 6

no, in your case. if you want a job, look harder; study harder for school, and work harder and save. having everything actually would help you financially, but without putting what you have to use, it's useless. so find out who you are, then persue it no matter what you do or think you don't have.

Answer 7

when you have everything spoon fed to you, you learn to be dependent.  You need to do things for yourself.  Start by getting a job.  Don't take money from anyone, do it yourself.  Study, night school or community college or GED or whatever you need, do it.  Get yourself in gear!!

There are problems that come from having too much just like there are problems that can come from not having enough.

Answer 8

If your talking about someone that has everything but had it given to them I have a friend who's the son of a very famous actor from the 70's.........He doesn't even know haw to get change for a hundred dollar bill and he's 38

Answer 9

Sometimes people take things for granted, and if they don't learn how to handle money, and earn it- not just be handed it, early on in life, then they're cheating themselves. They don't know the first thing about taking care of themselves, paying bills, health insurance, job benefits, etc. Maybe that's not the case, but sometimes it is