Is there a reason why he is acting this way?

Question

I have a crush on a guy I work with. I have been working with him about 4 months. We are probably the closest people in the office. He tells me everything and makes me laugh. I expressed interest in getting to know him outside of work about 2 months ago, but he didn't pursue me. So I just figured he didn't like me in "that way" or didn't want to date a coworker.

About 3 weeks ago, I decided to move, to be closer to family, out of state. I leave in mid August. I did tell him I was leaving and since than he has either been very flirtatious or very sarcastic, almost bordeline mean. He makes snide remarks. His desk is being moved so him and I won't be sitting next to one another anymore. So he says " Now that my seat is being moved, I don't have any reason to come on this side of the office anymore" wtf? Was I supposed to take that like now that he is moving he won't be speaking to me anymore? Why say such rude stuff to someone you are supposed to be friends with and I'm leaving soon!

Answer 1

He probably likes you - alot - and now since he was too much of a chicken to pursue you he's upset - he's just taking it out on you - making you feel guilty - don't fall for it - just think about how he would act if you two were dating....scary right? lol better off without him honey.....

Answer 2

He sounds screwed up to me, even a nasty piece of work.

Answer 3

Say "Deuces" and forget him.

Answer 4

Some people are weird and he sounds like one of them.

Answer 5

He's just pissed that he missed out his chance with you...now he's going to take it out on you and make your last days with him hellish. Don't take any of that c**p from him. Tell your boss what he's doing. And be GLAD that your desks are moving, good. He's being a big baby.

Still have a crush on him? Forget about it. Your coworker baby man isn't worth your time.

Answer 6

You made your self available and he didn't follow through.  Now you are going and he has no more reason to feel good about him self anymore.  

The sooner he is out of your life the better.

Absolutely refuse anymore bullying from this man what so ever.  Report everything.