Is there a way to love a person to death, but not to the point that you are suffocating each other?

Question

its really hard to do... when you feel like you want to be with the person all the time? you both have friends... you both need space. but how do you improve the relationship so you give each other enough space?

also... is it okay to talk to them at least once a day if its on the phone?

Answer 1

read a book about codependency and see why you are like this.

Sounds like fear of being alone, fear or not having their own life, cut the cord and be on your own. Smothering is never good because it takes the ozygen out of the person. People need time to develop on their own because if they are always around the same people there will eventually be nothing to talk about. get a job or volunteer.