Is there a way to slow him down?

Question

When my boyfriend and I are having s*x, he tends to go too fast and ends before I do. But he can go multiple times, but we are never able too get me to finish. Is there a way to slow him down and be able to get me to finish?

Answer 1

you have to let him know that ...this will make him feel more responsible for your needs. Its kinda selfish this thing but he has to understand that he should consider you other wise there are better partners around....if he is suffering from premature ejaculation than you both has to work on that. there are a lot of techniques that can slow that thing down.

Good luck.

Answer 2

i agree wit the person  above me and he probably has  like a cam hidden in the bedroom.........

Answer 3

right before he feels like he is going to finish tell him to squeeze his thing..sounds painful but my husband started doing and now he goes for a long time and doesn't have to squeeze it...

Answer 4

Here are a couple things to try:

1. Special condoms you can get at any Wal-Mart called Extended Pleasure.

2. p***s rings that restrict blood flow.

3. You could also look at your local Adult Toy Store for any lotions or pills for this problem.

Answer 5

Amazingly silly answers so far... Ignore them.

Yes, there are "desensitizing" creams that essentially make it less intense for him.  You can find them at major drug stores, so no need to go in to stores you otherwise might not want to visit.

As a tip... (is that a pun?).  Be sure he puts it on early, certainly before penetration.  Otherwise the cream will also end-up applied to you, which will put you right back where you started of course.  Good luck!

Answer 6

These may sound weird but I heard about this thing called scrotal ring pull:

Circle his s*****m above the testicles and yank it

It is supposed to slow ejaculation if not scare the s*** out of him.

Just one solid yank should work.

Answer 7

There is a VERY simple technique for fixing this. He will learn how to control himself in just a couple days.

Have him stimulate himself to the point just before he cums.

Force himself to stop then repeat it. Once he becomes aware of his own reactions, he will have no problem controlling himself.

Answer 8

tell him! and say if u dont slow down then no more s*x! he will slow down!!! lol

Answer 9

How about dumping him and finding a more considerate partner? Another one is to say something. It doesn't matter how many times he can go, the fact is, your needs aren't being met. He's using you, hun.