Is there a website i can see all my daughters conversations? ?

Question

okay my doughter haves a mind of her own she running off not telling me where she is and not texting me back and not picking up my calls i was wondering if there was any website i could see her texts so i know whos she texting and hanging out with??

Answer 1

i doubt it.

and even if there was, why would you spy on your child, youre only going to push her away further.

Answer 2

why would you want to do that?your risking losing her if she ever found out what you were thinking of doing.if you dont trust her then has she given you reason not to?if she has done something in the past that has made you be so paranoid then deal with it in a way that wont affect your relationship like this is going to.everyone likes to know what their kids are up to,who they are with and where are they going but you cant.you obviously care a lot for your daughter and you just want to protect her but spying on her---NO!theres a line not to be crossed with all people but mother and daughter no way.i just hope that she doesnt check on what youve been doing on the computer and finds your question.

Answer 3

=[ I'm a sorry to hear you your daughter do not have a close and trusting relationship. My mother and me are like best friends. I love her!

Answer 4

i dont think  you can see the actual messages but on your bill you should have a list of all the phone numbers she has sent a text to and received a text from

Answer 5

you don't say how old your daughter is - that makes a difference. yes your daughter has a mind of her own, of course she does. it up to you to set the clear boundaries. tell her if she does not respect those boundaries then she will be grounded. talk to your child, tell her how you feel and listen to her when she replies. you must respect each other.

Answer 6

I think you can purchase a product online called 'bsafe.' It should have the functions you're looking for.

See www.bsafehome.com

Answer 7

sometimes ignorance is bliss. there are probably things on there that you do not want to see. trust me i know. maybe just talk to her explaining that if she wants you to trust her more, she needs to answer your calls, tell you where shes going, etc. but please, dont read her conversations, for your own sake.....you'll just get overly stressed out. trust me on this one

Answer 8

Who is he service provider of the phone she is texting from? the H** with what others say. Your her mom!!!! You have EVERY right in the world to know what she is doing, who she is socializing with and going out with!!!!!!!!! They aren't the ones that have to dig your child up off the side of the road after riding with drunk drivers,console her after she's been raped by someone, or lay her to rest because she was chatting with strangers and metting them and gets herself murdered! THEY don't have to deal with it so of course they are just going to give you some stupid answers! You find out who she is talking to, texting,phoning,emailing, where she is going, when she will be home and lay down the D*** law!!!!!

Answer 9

It's bad parenting that's the cause of this, not the cell phone, sorry.  Your daughter shouldn't be running off without asking you.  If she does so, punish her!  Don't just say it's because she has a "mind of her own".  Teach her some respect, honestly.

If it keeps up, take away her cell phone.  If you contact your cell provider, you can request a paper copy of all text messages that have passed through any cell phone on your account, though they may charge you for it.

Answer 10

depending on the network you may be able to get a print out of who she texts. but not what is said or who texts her. If you are that bothered that she';s not answering you calls take her phone from her and tell her she can only have it back if she picks up you calls,

Answer 11

ya i went to my netwrok and you can read when she sent the text messages but im not sure if you can read them just check her phone

Answer 12

If your daughter is running off, why does she still have a cell phone to text with?  You should take it away from her until she can behave!  Sounds like there is a lot more going on here than you know.  I would take the cell, write down all of the phone #s in her address book and not give the cell back until she can prove she deserves it back.  

Answer 13

I'm sorry if your daughter is running off/starting her own life if she's too young to be able to look after herself properly.

But trying to read her private mail is not the way to get her back.

Have some respect for her. She is NOT your property.

Treat her right and she may want to come back.

Answer 14

How old is your daughter? I am assuming she is still young enough to be told what is what.... and it is about time you did so.

I don't think you are able to read her texts without actually getting her phone but why not set some rules.... if she's not home by a set time she loses her phone priviledges for a day (this is not a way to get her phone so you can read the texts....she's just delete them anyway)

Answer 15

No there isn't all you can do is sit and wait for her to leave the phone lying around, but it's like this would you read her diary same thing? would you have liked your mum nosey into your private things?  

Answer 16

Christ...if that was my daughter..together we would re-define the word 'lock down'  nowadays it's too crazy out there for secrets, lies, and deception between our children.  call your phone provider and they will assist you with the texts, explaing where she is and who she is with.

moreover, DISCIPLINE your child.  now or never

Answer 17

um. no. in all truth, you're daughter is GROWING UP. please, don't get too concerned, it's something all kids start to do. the best you can do is keep track of her friends, try and teach her good morals, and try to be as much of her friend as parenting can allow.

really,

reading all her texts?

that's an invasion of privacy,

and if i were your daughter i'd probably never tell you anything important if you kept track of everything in my life.

please give her some room to grow up. just be there for support and love. she won't die from having a social life.

Answer 18

I'm thinking no.

Answer 19

There are cell phones offered with a gps monitoring ability. Using the phone's signal you can see a local map online and where essentialy she is. knowing who she is with is not able(unless her friends had the same phone and you could assess them.

This is like how the Police would track a cell phone.

I am adding a link to verizonwireless. Most major phone company's have a similar ability.

Answer 20

There's no such sites.

But if she's using MSN or anything you can set her settings to save chat logs, which you can then view later.

Another suggestion would be to set up a keylogger on your computer so you can see exactly what she types.  Unfortunately this doesn't display what the other person types, but chances are you could get a grasp on what she's talking about.  Try searching google for Keylogger or visit this site: http://www.spyarsenal.com/familykeylogge...

I can respect where you're coming from, I'd be going out of my mind if i was in your position.

As to those members who told her to back off and respect her daughters privacy...The idea is to answer her question, not criticise her .

Answer 21

don't think so. and also if my mum were doing that I really feel like ahe was invading my privacy and would be really unhappy. find some other way of keeping tabs on what she doing, without spying and invading her privacy

Answer 22

no unfortunetly there is not.  Try being honest with her and tell her you are worried about her.  Plus tell her she is on a three strike system.  She either writes a note with a time she will be returning, calls or txts to let you know.  if she doesnt come back or warn you that she is not returning by that time she has to let you know.  The fact is the more you try and control your child the more they will rebell, but show her that you are worried and trying to keep her safe.

Answer 23

if it was possible to do this, alot of people will be doing this, just leave her be, if she's making mistakes, she'll learn from them, unless you lock her in the house you cant know where she is 24/7

Answer 24

if i can just say dont eavesdrop that will make her want to hide everything from you be open and talk to her if there is something wrong she just might tell you

Answer 25

I work for Orange UK. You cannot get a hold of what a text says from a network provider nor a website. Websites wouldnt be allowed to do this. You can get a itemised bill at an extra cost to see what texts were sent when ect. Only way Orange/02 ect would give this information, would be if a court of law needed it.

Respect her privacy and if she has a contract, it will be in your name not hers as you have to be 18+ for a contract. Take it off her!

If you want your daughter to respect you, you got to give her it by trusting her.

Answer 26

Your phone service provider should be able to assist you with this request. If you are also interested in a computer program for her pc use, there is a program called "Guardian" that records every key stroke. Best wishes~

Answer 27

omg id be sooooo mad too! well if shes coming home late then i guess yea, ask you cell carrier

Answer 28

i understand ur need to protect ur daughter, bt isn't reading her private messages going too far? since ur her mum, you have every right to refuse to let her out until she tells u who she's going with. Next time she doesn't answer demand to know why. If she doesn't co-operate ban her from going out.

Answer 29

geesh, you need to give her some privacy! Seriously, as long as she's not an ASBO than just give her her space!

Answer 30

No, the phone company doesn't have any way to track the contents of text messages. You could get one of those phones that tells you the location of the phone, like a GPS thing. Or you could just ground her. Best of luck. I am not looking forward to the teenage years with my kids...

Answer 31

No, but using their phone number there are websites that offer tracking services for a monthly fee, so you know where they are, whenever you want.