Last night I was invited to a social gathering at a couple's home. In conversation, this single lady questioned another gentleman what branch he served in the military. In doing so, she in turn, extended her hand to him in thanks for serving. Someone mentioned that I had served also, and she extended her hand in thanks for serving also. However, she wasn't too keen on how I shook her hand. I don't shake a man's hand the same as I would a woman's hand. I couldn't really give her a difinitive answer at the moment as to why I do it just so. I tried to tell her that it is "old school", in fact if someone did the research on it, I'm sure the British years ago (many years ago), when encountering a lady, the lady would extend her hand to the gentleman. It was nothing like a hand shake between two men. This particular lady and I were the only two singles at this small social gathering, and a first impression is a lasting impression. She thought it to be a wimpy hand shake...whatever!
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