Is there any any part of my personality that may explain why i have an obsession with being tied up...?

Question

...and even humiliated so much?

I have an obsession of being tied up and being sexually humiliated and I know it's a mixture of three/two forms of being kinky and it's nothing i wanna change about myself but I wanna know if there's any part of my personality that might explain this obsession and want.

Well this is basically a description of me:

I'm a pre-op male-to-female transsexual and I also fancy girls too and have a great gf(I doubt that has anything to do with it).

In a relationship I love being dominated and told what to do, etc, for some reason it makes me feel happy.

I love feeling weak and helpless on the grounds that I have someone there to protect me(again makes me feel happy for some reason).

I love being held and I'm a very sensitive person and can be very emotional so tend to have a short temper but I'm also very easily upset too and easily made happy and I have alot of love to give.

I sthere any aspect of my personality that might explain why I love being tied up and sexually humiliated?

Answer 1

i really cant tell maybe .........

Answer 2

"Obsession"?

Are you really "obsessed" - or do you just simply enjoy BDSM?

If it's the latter, I wouldn't worry about "why", just go with what makes you feel good ;)

Everyone is different and while some people may get turned on by stuff that's considered "mainstream" or "normal" such as lingerie etc, others find different things appealing.

Unless what you like doing is in any way illegal, I wouldn't worry about trying to analyse why BDSM floats your boat...I'm sure that most guys who like blondes wearing stockings don't waste time contemplating why they prefer that to redheads wearing nurses outfits :D

You used the word "kinky" though which indicates to me that you feel that BDSM is "abnormal"...but being tied up and a bit of humiliation style role-play is really no big deal  ;)

Have a look around on the internet and you'll find countless sites that cater to those who enjoy all aspects of BDSM...there's literally MILLIONS of people out there who like exactly the same thing, so it's hardly something that's considered "unusual".

  

Answer 3

If you figure it out, let me know. I'm equally obsessed except for the humilitation part.

Answer 4

ahhh you suck. I was lovin it till i got to the description part

Answer 5

I must say that wanting to be sexually humiliated and actually being sexually humiliated are two different things.

The first is a fantasy and a longing which you cannot possibly be harmed in any way and is a long way off from the real thing.

I used to have a fantasy about being raped until I had an experience which wasn't far off from the real thing and it made me sick to my stomach.

When lovers that have been together for a long time and really trust each other perform bondage they often have a special word that when called out means "I want you to stop what you are doing right now."

Answer 6

Don't ask me babe i feel the same way.