My husband and i have lost two babies in the past year. Our son was born at 41 weeks and died at 36 hours old due to blood loss caused by Vasa Praevia. Our daughter was still born at 25 weeks and that was unexplained.
We have the plan that we will try one more time to take a healthy baby home and if we suffer another loss where i have to have a c-section (i had to have c-sections with those two) then we will start adoption.
The thing is, after reading the literature send by the adoption agency it says that they want couples who have suffered a loss to wait a year before starting adoption. Basically we dont want to wait that long. If we try again and suffer a loss it could be another 3 years from now before we are allowed to start the adoption process. I am 27 and my husband is 31.
I am aware that our age at the moment is good for the chances of us getting a child under 1 year old. The older we get, the older child we will be allowed. Now, i'm not saying that i wouldnt take a
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