Is there any way I can salvage my relationship with my sister?

Question

She is a huge bully to me. To the point that she causes me to literally shake. My mom refuses to get involved in any way. I always try to be upbeat and nice to her, but she will just roll her eyes at me or ignore me when she feels like. Five minutes later she will be my best friend. I am constantly walking on egg shells with her. She will go off on me for no reason what so ever.

I have tried talking to her about it a few times but she refuses to and just gets angry and walks away. When I tell her she causes me to shake she says I am a liar. I don't know if it is possible to do anything. What should I do?

Answer 1

ok im an older sister and tbh it sounds to you like she is your older sister..

right be quite  for ages and dont argue back dont speak dont do anything its sounds crazy but just dont .. !

she will be relii freaked out and look relii stupid cuz she is fighting anything and then when you mum realizes your quite ect tell her what has been going on and just say you relii need to tlk to her ..

:D or something like tht if u get me..

Answer 2

Write down every mean thing she says to you.  Exactly one hour later go to her and repeat them back to her with a funny accent.

Answer 3

The best thing you can do is just walk away any time she gets abusive in any way.  If she starts to go off on you, just leave the room.  Don't take things personally.  This is very important.  You need to realize she is the one with the problem.  Don't let her cause you to feel bad about yourself.

Answer 4

Stay away from your sister.  She might be suffering from bi-polar disorder or on drugs.  Or maybe she is just a *********.

Answer 5

She's probably going through puberty - keep your distance!!

Answer 6

Honestly. My sister is just like that. The best thing to do is not hold a grudge. I no this sounds like terrible advice, but really, i no my sister will never change. I love her anyway. You just really have to defend yourself when she is being a bully to you, don't let her make you shake, i no it sounds hard, but its possible. And when she is your friend, you just have to accept it. You can't be like "Oh, you were terrible to me an hour ago." because then the fight will go on forever, trust me. Don't be weak, but don't be so strong that your as thick headed as your sister is when you try to talk to her about it. Maybe this isn't the best advice for you, i don't know you. I've just been going like this half my life. Not weak, not to strong.  

Answer 7

I WISH YOU COULD GET YOUR MOM INVOLVED CAUSE SHE MAY B ABEL TO CALM YOUR SIS DOWN,,ITS SAD U FEEL LIKE U DO I WOULD TRY TO STAY OUT OF HER WAY ,N TRY TO IGNORE HER AS BEST U CAN,,PEACE