Is there any way of getting rid of your baby at 18 weeks pregnant?

Question

dont judge me. i dont know what to do at this moment in time. im going thru sumthing that is personal, i just want to know ..

Answer 1

DON'T GET RID OF THE BABY, GIVE IT UP FOR ADOPTION TO ME, I WOULD LOVE TO ADOPT YOUR BABY. I LIVE IN AUSTRALIA AND YOU CAN CONTACT ME AT [e-mail]   FOR MORE INFO,PLEASE.

Answer 2

I'm a new mommy to be and my husband and I are very excited! I don't believe you can even get rid of your baby if you wanted too because you are too far along. You would have too many complacations! Plus, I don't think any place would let you get rid of of your baby unless you had a good reason. Your baby is an actually living baby why would you want to do this when you are so far along? You sound like you are going through something! Life sometimes gets rough but you can get through it. Besides going through something is a part of life. We as humans have it rough sometimes but how are we ever to learn from our mistakes. If you are not ready you can give the baby up to a loving family who been trying to have kids but cannot. I once had an aboration I regret so much! I wasn't that far along but I'm so shameful for doing it. People make mistakes in their lives that was one for me. If I could go back I would! Believe me you are too far along there is no way you can forgive yourself after. You might even have worst problems with your-self. You can read all this posting but in the end its really choice. I just hope you make the right one! Best of luck to you!

Answer 3

You are going to get alot of opinions on here, and I am going to give you mine, since you are asking. I am not judging, just giving you an opinion about what you should consider. I think it is a little too late to put yourself and the baby through an abortion. Maybe you should consider giving the baby to an adoptive couple so it can live and be loved and cared for the rest of its life. Something to think about. If that is something you decide you want to do, you can check out our website at http://www.babyadoption.wordpress.com. My husband and I are waiting adoptive parents who are legally approved to adopt a baby in the United States.

We wish you peace in your heart, whatever decision you make.

Answer 4

You sound so confused and lost right now.  You also sound very uncertain about having an abortion.  I am not here to judge you.  That is not our job on this earth, but to help and encourage each other.

Your baby is not just a bunch of cells but a real live baby!  You many not be able to see him/her or even feel him/her yet but the baby is alive, has a heartbeat, and is very much real!

Think of this question.  In 5 years from now, when you are older, more secure in your life, maybe even married and wanting to start a family . . .
how will you feel when you look back and think - I killed my baby because I was not ready to have him/her at that time.  How will if affect you to know you had an abortion?  I know one thing, you will never forget it.  You will think every day about that baby.  When you see other children you will think my baby would have been this age today, wonder what he/she would look like, act like.  I don't want you to regret your decision.  Ending a life is a HUGE deal.  You can not ever bring that baby back again.  

Now think of this question.  What if I carry this baby to full term, give the baby life and then give the baby to a couple out there that just aches to have a child.  In 5 years how will you feel about this?  You can think back and say, I had a baby.  I was not ready to keep him/her but I loved that little one enough to give him/her life.  I know my baby is with a loving, caring couple.  I know my baby is doing great and is living because I have chosen to give him/her life. You will still think of your baby often, but instead of thinking I ended a life you can think I gave my baby life and I gave a family a child they ached and prayed for.

Which two of these questions would you rather see happen?  Which one would you rather look back on in years to come and be able to face?  Which one will give you peace in your life?

You have a lot to think about.  Your decision will not be an easy one, but I will pray for you.  I know you will make the right one.

If you would ever like to talk more my e-mail is [e-mail].

As I said I am not hear to judge you.  You are hurting and confused and have some big choices to make that will change your life forever.  Do not make them lightly but please take time to really think it through, not just for the moment, but for the years ahead too.
God Bless You