I'm trying to understand the thinking behind the assumption that anyone who does not believe in adoption - or a certain kind of adoption - is implying that children don't "deserve" a family.
I'm sure that most of the regulars on this site know my point of view that all children deserve a loving, warm, emotionally stable family made up of people one is directly related to. If this arrangement is not possible, then of course a substitute should be found - again, a loving, warm, emotionally stable family - preferably one that the child is somehow related to. And if that's not available, then a third-best, fourth-best, etc. substitute should be sought for the child.
I've never heard anyone say, or imply, that children don't deserve a family. Of course, no child deserves to be abandoned - or deal with feelings of abandonment - raised by strangers in a strange world. If that option MUST be sought because the #1 choice isn't possible, well ok. But I don't understand the thinking...
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