Is there anyone that feels the same way?

Question

Is there anyone out there, that hates going to bed, because you hate waking up and knowing that you have to face another day at school. You're not bullied or teased or anything, you just don't fit in. Do you hate the underage drinking, the smoking and the drugs. Do you hate the way all those teens who are so disrespectful. Do you hate hearing the constant swearing and bitching. Do you wish everyone could just get along. Do think its childish that your peers don't take responsibility for there own actions, yet they want to do adult things like, dating, s*x, drinking, and all that jazz.

Did you ever feel like your the only one that cares about your future.

If you feel this way please tell me. I felt this way my whole life. And i just wish i could find someone that felt the same way. If you wanna talk about add me [e-mail]. Thanks

Answer 1

Well, I don't mind school, and I enjoy it most of the time, I just don't like going to bed because I know that it's going to be morning all too soon.

Answer 2

haha bed is awsum cause quicker to bed quicker to morning

skool is cool man but omgsh so much now i dont like it alot lolz

i fit in heaps u seen "win a date with Tad Hamilton" yea im Tad of the real word hard

disrespectful noobs are gosh i hate em  i hate all those hardkunts that drink and smoke and do drugs specially the noobs that smoke at skool

wana punch them in the face some days gosh i really get worked out

oh and dont get me started on the hardkunts on the bus they pump there S****y *** crappy terrible music make me wana throw the phone outa da window yea if everyone got along that be better but it aint ever gona happen this guy hates me case i talk to his gf wtf lolz i mean his jealous his like the ugliest kid in the world i dunno how he got a hot gf bs the world aint fair its not like his nice or nothing he full makes her cry which make me wana bash him casue shes like ma best freind man 1 day wen i finish school his mine.  there another kid stupid hardkunt wants to fit after school guess what he never shows then his even dumber he wanted to fight my lebbo friend he goes his gona bring his brother haha my lebbo freind called his bad cousins and they brang guns lolz fkn funny **** i saw then nothing happnd but idiot finks he can mess wif a lebbo his dumb.  i care bout my future plenty so do ma rents they always nag me bout skool work speaking of work i got yearly tests in like 2weeks omgsh gotta study hard so boring man i dun wana

heyz u got msn? we can talk then alot cause yea im always on the lookout for new friends  

Answer 3

that's exactly the way I feel... I go to bed at 1 in the school days just because I HATE waking up and going to school. it's destroying my life :((. I hate it to when my friends get drunk. I never got drunk. I also had a friend who smoked but we convinced him to quit it. I also have groups of friends who hate each other and i don't like that because they all want to go out with me but I have to decide which group to go with because they can't stand meeting each other. Some aspects of life like these really suck.

Answer 4

No.

Lol Yes;

Answer 5

I was just like you when I was in high school. Almost to a T. I used to pray to God that the school would burn down so that I wouldn't have to go. The only exception was that I was sleeping with my boyfriend, but we were extremely responsible about our activities (two forms of BC at all times.) I hated all of the drugs and alcohol my classmates were doing though, and saw it as a sorry and pathetic attempt to act more like adults when they couldn't even handle the responsibility of doing their schoolwork or holding down a job. I especially hated that they couldn't settle down and behave maturely in class. I took honors classes just to get away from the rambunctious kids.

College will be better for you. It's a much more positive and productive environment, and any idiot classmate of yours that tries to go to college when all they did was f**t around in high school will be weeded out the first semester. By the 2nd year, only the dedicated students are left. It's great. Good luck sweetie. It's only four years of your life (Well, for me it was three because by my sophomore year the thought of having to stay in high school another 2.5 years was more than I could bear, so I graduated early.)  

Answer 6

Melz, it's good to see that you are still standing strong in your beliefs.  It's extremely difficult at times to deal with the peer pressure thing, while not compromising your own beliefs.  I know very well how hard this is, and if you ever want to talk to someone, I'm around.  Believe me, i know full well how it is..even now when i am 24, i know it's gotten worse for you than it was for my age group.  You might look into trying to find an interfaith youth froup, or any spiritually-minded youth group to help sustain you and your beliefs.  Surround yourself with the people that  believe as you do, and be stringer together.  It helps.. I know.

Answer 7

that is the story of my life right there... :(

Answer 8

Yes! That's exactly the way I feel.

Answer 9

yes

Answer 10

OMG yes!!!!!

i am in year 12 and we are ment 2 be the seniors of the school but i really feel like most of my grade is in year 1....all they do is go 2 school in the morning & then skip the rest of the day 2 go out & smoke & then go out that night & get drunk of their faces....it is so pointless....i feel like i am the reject of my grade as i don't want to go out every weekend and get drunk off my face & spend all my spare money on drugs....

Answer 11

Yes, I completly feel the same way. I don't hate going to bed at night and I don't dread school but I do hate all of those things you pointed out.  

Answer 12

Haha so true.

Do you have the feeling of wanting to make everybody happy even though it sucks that they don't care how you feel?

Answer 13

You shouldn't feel bad, you should feel proud.

Try to make a difference, would campaigns against these stuff.

im adding you.

Answer 14

I concur, although I enjoy not fitting in with the rest. To me not fitting in means that are more of an individual, you are not apart of the machine that binds these people. You are free to think your own thoughts, and choose you own path in life. Me personally feel that they have lost control of their own mind and themselves, afraid to go against the grain of the group. Truly, there is almost no responsibility among my peers, though they have jobs they blow the lot on useless trivial things.

(I also like your use of actual words instead of the "text talk" thing people oh so love to use. ( I can't understand any of it))

I unfortunately do not have a hotmail account to add you

Have you ever by chance listened to "Hero" by regina spektor? a most excellent song.

I'm very glad to have found a person who shares my views as well.

Answer 15

I feel that way. I'm 16 now and going into grade 11 and although I do enjoy high school its because of the good friends that I have made who feel the same as me. There's always that popular group who think they're so cool when really they're just louder than everyone else. I seriously dislike people like that. What really makes me upset is that I know because of my beliefs of being more mature I am a more solid, head-strong person but these people seem to have it all and I will hate it if their entire life is like this. Do you know what I mean? Like they're going to the popular and lucky ones their whole life. That would suck. Anyways back to what you were saying: Teenagers these days are immature and stupid but the problem is that they think the opposite. They think they're so cool and smart; then they get into things like drugs, alcohol, s*x and all that jazz. What keeps me sane in school is knowing that because I am more mature and together I have a chance at a better future because I'm not just partying it up in school. Don't get me wrong I do still have fun and enjoy this time of my life I'm just more responsible about it. One thing that always makes me laugh when people in school are being annoying and immature: Observe how much work they actually get done in class and that will give you a good idea of their grades. Then think about where these grades will get them in life. A good part of today's teenagers will end up screwed in their future because, unlike us, they didn't take time to care about their future. Be yourself in school, and if you haven't already, make friends that are like you and that you can talk to. I wish you luck and happiness for the rest of your high school life and for your life beyond.

Answer 16

I kinda do.Kids today are just....wild.I mean you need you need to have fun once in while.I think you are growing up way too fast.Enjoy life while you are younger because you can only be young once and if you grow up,you can't go back.

I didn't fit in neither.I mean I just chose not to.I know how without trying hard.I just don't like school and the teens my age are just doing too much.

Answer 17

I felt that way in highschool. I am 23 now. I still stay up late because I'm a night owl and I like to get at least a little time to myself.

DOn't worry when people say to you that school is the best days of your life so enjoy it. For me it was the worst days of my life and things only got better after I finished. So many people in highschool are so shallow, dumb and nasty, who wants to be surrounded by that? It'll drag but it will end, then you can have some fun :)

Answer 18

When I first read this, I thought I had written it.

I couldn't possibly agree with you more whole-heatedly.

To quote Morrissey, "This world, I am afraid, Is designed for crashing bores.... but I am not one."

Answer 19

I hated school from the moment it start in 9th grade all the way up to when I graduated... It was h**l..

At the time I could have card less if others got along, I just wanted them to leave me alone..

Had I known better I would have left and got my GED and would not have had to deal with them ..

Answer 20

Yes, I so feel it. I have a circle of friends and we all don't really fit in with everybody. We're good kids (well, teens), we do well in school, and we don't fall for peer pressure. Except that now, one of my friends seems to be starting to, and another is going to be pretty quick to follow her. I just want to take them by the shoulders and shake them, telling them that they're turning into the very thing they dislike. It makes me wonder: do they really dislike it or do they just say so? Anyways, I hate how those teens label us all into a disrespectful, pregnant, vile age group. And yes I feel the same way as you do. I'm cherishing my school-break for summer while it's here.

Answer 21

No.

Ok, 1st thing- people stop bitching about how you hate school. If you are one of those azzholes that have faul mouth to your teacher, then you are f*kin stupid and selfish,

There are kids in Africa and other countries that would give up so much just to go to school, and they can't. All they hear are stories of how kids in USA and England are learning to read and write and how they can add big numbers...

Respect what you have.   <<<< above message is not to the asker but to those people who I pointed out.

I don't really go to bed early O.o And I have no problem waking up.

Schools is everything. You get only one chance. Thank God everyday that I am able to learn in a wonderful school with very high learning standards...

God bless you for taking school seriously! And rest of people who do.