Is there anyone that has 3 kids pregnant with the fourth kid?

Question

I want want another child but, I feel if I had another or get pregnant now I would feel ashame because my baby is only 9 months

Answer 1

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Answer 2

Why would you be ashamed?? If you can afford it and your with the father why not....? I have 6 children and never felt ashamed.....

Answer 3

I became pregnant with my fourth child the month my third turned 1.  You should probably wait at least a year-but better yet 18 months- before becoming pregnant again.  Just to let your body heal.

Answer 4

You shouldn't feel ashamed so long as you can afford to take care of them and give them all attetnion. My sister in law has a son who turned 4 on august 12, a daughter who will be 3 Sept. 3rd, a son who will be 2 on nov. 2, and  a baby girl due sept 15. she cannot handle the three that are already here very well nor can she afford it so for her a 4th was a mistake but you know if your ready. So take into consideration the other kids, and your money situation.

Answer 5

Why would you feel ashamed for wanting another child? I had five. and raised  2 foster children. BY the time if you got pregnant now you had another child , the one you have now at 9 months would be at least a year and a half . . I had two less than that. They grew up close to each other in life and no problems. You set the pace and beliefs of your home. If it is loving and fun, the children will grow that way. Stressed and concerned and up tight the same. Rules i feel for when to have children or not are not cookie cutter for all. life is change and change again. Some times we get dirty diapers in it all and other times potty trained bliss. Embrace all you do with out comparing yourself to others comments or judgements. You will be happier and healthier. What is best for you is best for YOU. Others don't pay your bills , raise your children or have the responsibility for.. Even if do in some way... they aren't you.. Children NEED a parent who loves them, guides them by example . In everything we do in life we are examples to our kids. by chose or default. Hope this helps you.. good luck