Is there anyone whose dealing with a married person?

Question

what type of lines do they drop on you, do you believe that they can be trusted because they claim to be so unhappy...

Answer 1

EVERYTHING IN THE BOOK.  No they are not to be trusted, becasue if there were trust worthy, they would be good men and not cheating. What is up with these women messing around with married men.  

Answer 2

Unless you want a man who will cheat on you and be willing to leave you for someone else when he gets bored with your relationship, don't bother. He already has a bad track record. If you can get him to cheat on his wife with you, then someone else can easily get him from you.

Answer 3

These men can not be trusted.  You will witness first hand how much they can lie and manipulate you and their spouse.  One married man actually drove around in the parking lot to convince his wife that he was driving somewhere.  These men will do whatever it takes to keep their wife happy and keep the woman on the side.  They will say everything everyone else mentioned and they won't mean most of it.  My favorite is, "I love you".  What a funny way to show love huh?  It is a tough situation to be in though because they can be so charming and will learn how to reel you in when you pull away.  He will tell you he knows it's hard for you but you have to just hang in there.  

If you are involved with someone and you don't want him to leave his family, then you need to get away from him.  Don't be so lonely that you will settle for this situation because the deeper you get, the harder it will be to leave.  Find out why you want to be involved with someone who is not available.  Are you afraid of comittment?  This situation will only leave you feeling frustrated and more lonely than you are now.  Sorry, but it's the truth.  How lonely will you be when you can't call him or when he leaves you at home to be with his wife?  It's the worst kind of lonely I have known.  

Answer 4

rrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrruuuuuuuu... as fffffffffffffffffffffffaaaaaaaaaaaaassss... as you can. don't do it he isn't worth it... if he is so unhappy he wouldn't have married and he is a liar.. and just think if he will do it to her he will do it to you

Answer 5

Tell him to get lost - and mean it!  He is lying to his wife, so he can lie to you.  He is a selfish creep who will do anything to get you in bed, but cares nothing for you or his wife.  Does he have kids?  Doesn't he even care about how they might be affected?  Notice that his focus is on how unhappy HE is...    Like I said, he's selfish.  He will always put himself first.  Run away from him as fast as you can!  You deserve much better!!!!

Answer 6

Run away from him right now..........................They use any line they can to get what they want.  Everyone knows if a person is not truly happy in their marriage and they wanted to get out (especially a male), then they would be divorced.  They don't stay for the kids (kids are stronger than we give them credit for.  And many children have survived their parents divorce).  They don't stay for the finances/bills/obligations (they can always work out an arrangement through the divorce court).  They stay because they really do love their wives, they just want some extra a@@ on the side.  The other woman normally ends up hurt and feeling used.  If he is cheating on his wife, you don't think he is lying to you?  Run away from him now...............

Answer 7

everything and anything he is saying to you is to get you into the sack......run!!!!!  the other way and save yourself a lot of heartache and drama you don't need

Answer 8

What exactly do you want in this relationship?

You want to trust someone who's cheating. Hmmm.

What has he promised you? That he will leave her for you?

Statistically that doesn't happen.

You can trust that he's unhappy...to remain within his marriage.

Answer 9

They wil tell you that they have never felt about anyone before how they feel about u.  That they only wish they met u first.  That they sleep on couch. There is no love their but dont want to hurt undeserving wife more heartache by leaving for another and hurting kids this way.  That they want wives to be one to realise its over because otherwise she will take away all access to kids.  To give them time to do it right way if u care anything about him and his kids.  That he will get divorce and marry you, the right one & if only he could be married to you the one he loves he would not cheat or be the person he has become in this loveless mariage.  He will ask you to have faith and wait for him and if u truly are a good person and love him you will understand he needs to do things this way for his family.  Also much t loose financially.  He will tell u he cant loose you now he has finally found you and promise u the world.  Of course its all lies.  FACT!  I am just wondering tho, if u dont want a future with him, thats even worse because you are wrecking his family and dont even want him if he did leave them?  

Answer 10

No, you cannot believe them when they say they are cheating because they are so unhappy.  If they are truly as miserable as they say then they would divorce their spouse so they could be free to pursue a meaningful relationship.  Instead, they choose to betray the vows that they made to their spouse.  They usually have no desire whatsoever to leave their spouse and are content in the comfort zone that is home.  When they do this, they're out for a quick piece of @ss.

Answer 11

Just no, whatever your thinking of jumping into for the love of God just run away. I do not understand what the allure is of getting involved with someone still in a marriage...even if the marriage is really about to end and your not just being chased after like a piece of ***...someone in that position needs time to refocus on themselves and go through some kind of grieving process for the loss of their marriage.

So please do yourself a favor and if you are thinking of getting involved with a married person just dont. Lots of unmarried people out there....

And in the chance you were asking this as just a generalised question...if a married person ever hit on me i would be immediatley turned off by their lack of....commitment to their end of a deal like that.