Is there anyway to get over being really shy?

Question

People say that you grow out it but im 21 and have always been like this,never had a bf and don't have many friends. Has anyone else experienced this or have any suggestions? thanks

Answer 1

Well, I know I'm only 13, but shyness is just something you're allowing. It's like a brick wall, you know? YOU are the one who has gotta break through. First off, when meeting a new person, QCC (Ask a question, comment, and compliment!) I am very shy too, but I am working on it, because I want to be something really important someday. Give someone a smile, and do your best, because hey, if they don't like you, it's too bad for them (I know it is much easier said than done). Anyway, even for a shy person like me, if I really want the person to like me, I will talk. Don't be too self conscious! And ur not the only one out there, so dont give up!