Is there even ONE Adolescent on this Forum that is NOT having s*x...

Question

Why are ALL of you Pre- pubescent Kids having s*x? Is it out of Boredom? And if you are having s*x...do any of you KNOW what a Condom is to PREVENT STD's and Unwanted Pregnancy?

Answer 1

i'm not :D i'm 13 and all my friends aren't either. besides.... it would be hard to cut back on shopping with a baby and many other problems i might have if i was like some of the ppl in this forum.... (no offense)

Answer 2

yeah know what kiddddooo. kudos to me to having s*x ur prolly like a 40 year old virgin who lives with ur mom and has 50 cats. go to h**l. kudos to that *** dont worry about me buddy im finnee

Answer 3

That is a really good question. My husband and I have two daughters and they are young but I pray they will be smart enough to not do it. I will also be giving the talk. I wonder what has changed since we grew up?

Answer 4

I'm definitely not. I'm waiting until I'm ready, and if that's when I've been married for like 12 years, then that's how it is.

Answer 5

Virgin till marriage. I'm 13. Don't be judgmental.  

Answer 6

I'm almost 20 and lost my virginity right before I turned 19. I've never had s*x without a condom. I know that it may seem like a lot of teens are having s*x and being dumb about it, but I don't think the numbers are as high as we've been led to believe.

Answer 7

wellll i have had s*x, but always protected.

and i have only done it with one boy, who i love. even though he... dumped me. its been over a year and i dont know how i will ever get over him.  

Answer 8

im not having s*x and i dont want to right now. not to offend anyone but i wouldnt be dumb enough to have s*x at 14 and saying that i could take care of a baby because i cant even live on my own yet, or take care of myself.

Answer 9

I agree a 100 percent.

I've been asked to have s*x a million times it seems like.

And I've been pressured to do it.

I learned to be good and say no.

Others don't understand and say yes.

They say if you love me you'd do it.

And I usually say you love me, and your making me do something... you just want something from me. and you ain't getting it.

I refuse to have s*x till I am ready and no one else can let me be ready besides me.

I need to get me a purity ring so I don't have so many heart breaks.

I don't understand how people as young as 10 can be having s*x... because they are in "love"

That is so much sh*t.

They don't know what "love" is.

--Stared.-

If I could give you more I would like a 100 but yeah, I can't but you deserve it.

Answer 10

I'm not, that's something that i'm going to wait for, not necessarily marriage but for when i'm older. way older. I'm 13.

Answer 11

I'm 13, almost 14, and don't plan on having s*x until marriage. I don't think it's right to take that chance with someone you think you might love, but don't.  

Answer 12

No 8 out of 10 of teens will have do it by age 16

1 out 0f 10 will wait till marriage...

the last 1 out of 10 want to do it but can't get any...

and yes they know what a condom is, but there just too naive and think they wont get pregnant...

It's no big deal as long as it's safe...

everyone should put there kids on BC or give them condoms when they hit puberty...

Answer 13

virgin.

14.

Answer 14

14 and now pregnant

and advice for young

use a good quality condom!!!!

so u hav a less chance of it breakin

and i no i shouldnt hav had s*x in the frist place

but it just happend

but kids dont hav s*x until ur older!!

cause then u'll be like me

a 14 year old preggers girl!!

Answer 15

not me. I'm 15 and i have had s*x already. it wasn't out of boredom, it was just my choice. yes i know what a condom is but i didn't use one and that's my business

Answer 16

im not having s*x and dont plan to till im married and im 14 and all the girls are having s*x in my school but i consider then whores

Answer 17

I'm not =] I'm a virgin and I'm almost 13 and I will remain one until marriage.

Answer 18

I am still 13 and a virgin. I'm not having s*x until I get married with someone I love.

Answer 19

haha!! i'm not!!

i know right?!!?

what is up with these kids? lmao

i'm 15 =]

virrggiinn babyy!!!

Answer 20

Im not=]]

im a virgin and proun

im 14 and although i have a bf...

we are not having s*x

cuz we're not capable of waht it might bring...

a baby

now im not saying im wait till im married

ima try but im not making any promises

but we do want to wait till

we both know we are ready

Answer 21

peer pressure & probably Parents that don't educate their children on s*x and parents who give off wrong impressions. Its hard for a kid to know how to be ""good"" when the parents/parent only shows wrong examples.

Answer 22

i am having s*x-16. and yeah i do know what condoms are and that they stop pregnancy and stds. but i dont use them cause my boyfriend "cant feel when i am having and o****m" thats what he told me so i decided to fill you in.

but you shouldnt worry about us who are haveing s*x. its our choice. and frankly by posting these type of questions isnt gonna make me stop.  

Answer 23

just dropped in to show some respect to those not having s*x too young, keep it up guys, s*x gets old real fast, theres  no hurry to start it, and it can cause SO many problems.im proud of you for making the more mature, responsible  decision :0)

also, "my answer" youre here, youre answering, so does that make you one of the no life having ones as well?  watch before you speak hun , odor eaters tend to cause bad breath when you stick your foot in your mouth.

tylie is going to end up a jane doe, found in a ditch, knocked in the head by her own pimp...before aids has a chance to kill her.

Answer 24

Dearest, darling questioner,

While I realize that the adolescents in this forum are not exactly erhmm...prime specimens of human, I find it incredibly narrow-minded of you to lump all s*x-having teenagers into one category.  Just because most of us are too stupid to use protection, doesn't mean none of us do.

Love,

Mia.

Answer 25

Okay first of all, i know MANY people that by the time they we're 9 they we're already going through puberty, so don't go around saying that. and at the age of 15 is where some kids actually do it, yes there are kids that do it when there younger, but that is very rare. Kids start learning about s*x and condoms at the age of 10 or 9, then  they get actual facts when there in 5th or 6th grade, and there is NOTHING that we're oblivious about. And yes it might be out of boredom, surprise, But there are kids that actually believe there In love. And by the way condoms don't COMPLETELY prevent STD'S, and unwanted pregnancy.

i don't appreciate you saying that all kids are having s*x.

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I'm proud to say that i'm a 13 year old girl who is still a virgin and i'm not planing to change my status any time soon.

Answer 26

People at such a young age do not realize the risks they are taking by having s*x. 10-13 have not totally grown, which means they may die. And abortion is murder. I do not beleive in abortion. Why kill a baby for your mistake? And keeping the baby is almost impossible, and you are punishing your child by adopting them out, they will spend there whole likes unhappy to never have seen their mother. Don't people realize the consequences??

One of the three things that makes a teenager a teenager is the need for excitement. When your young, everythings fresh, and new, and exciting, and you learn something every day! But when teens figure out that the adult world is boring, they do crazy things like drink, and do drugs, have s*x, and run from the police. I wholeheartedly beleive that this is true.

I will know when the time is right to have s*x, and it isn't when I am 16 and on the fringe of adulthood. It might feel great to have s*x! It's exciting! You're with the one you "love". 9 out of 10 times, the boy only wants s*x and will dump you after he gets it. Don't be stupid, protect yourself and tell him to wear a condom. But remember, even with a condom, you are doing the wrong thing by disobeying your parents. And once you disobey you're parents like that, it will take SO long for them to trust you. So, when you want s*x, think about this: this is probably the last time you will have it in a LONG time if your parents find out. And then they will keep you in there sights ALL THE TIME.

Protect yourselves and don't be a bad person. This is the time you'll look at when you are older, and don't make yourself think, in the future, think, "Having s*x at age [however old you were] was the worst thing that happened to me".  

Answer 27

"I am worried about all the 11, 12, 13,14 ,15,16,17 year olds that are having unprotected s*x and having it at SUCH A YOUNG AGE."

14-17. That's not young. The age of consent in most states is 16. So, if the state thinks it's fine for teens to have s*x, why are so many people against it? Lot's of teens have protected s*x, but they don't exactly know how to use condoms or what size to get. It could slip off, or tear, or something else. I don't see any problems with teens having s*x. If something happens, there's always Plan B.

Answer 28

You know, with these kinds of questions, I've noticed that the only people that answer these are the ones that are not having s*x. And I don't think she's generalizing. When you go to the adolesent section, it seems like there are all of these questions like "Heyy, Im 17 and pregnant." You know what she means. She's just saying that it seems like everyone is doing it. Don't take words exactly like what they are. Think about what the person is trying to convey and don't jump to conclusions. And btw, Im a virgin.

-Madeline<33

Answer 29

The problem is that s*x should be for marriage.  Yeah, I know it sounds unpopular, but get this.  The reason people get married is so that they know the other person is willing to be committed to them for life (i.e. the vow) Of course there are the cheaters, and those who still play the field, but they broke the vow and should be punished (child support, payments to spouse, etc.  I know this sounds stupid, but how stupid does it sound that Elizabeth Taylor was married more than eight times?  Or that Britney Spears was married and divorced within the span of two days?  Both genders have a problem with commitment which is why they are unwilling to take the marriage vow before "hitting the sack," so to speak.  Besides unwanted pregnancies there are all kinds of deterrents such as AIDS, sexually transmitted diseases, HIV not to mention feeling like a part of yourself was drawn out and wasted before you find your true love.  It isn't all about s*x you know.  s*x is an expression of how much you love the other person, not to test drive the car to see if...um...it works in a way that pleases you.  'Cause feelings get attached, people fall in love, children are born out of wedlock etc.  And yeah, I'm a black man saying this so everyone that believes that black men are all about s*x, look out, here's one that wants to wait till marriage (and yes, I did have offers).

Answer 30

I'm 18 and a virgin. i know what a condom is and i know what birth control i will use when i do have s*x

you must remember the media, peer pressure, the need to not feel rejected, parents never loved them, past child molestation, or parent never talk to them.

PArents need to stop being whimps and talk to thier childern about s*x. its not hard.

Answer 31

I'm 15 and I'm still a virgin. I don't know when I'll have s*x, but it has to be at an age when I'll able to deal with any possible repercussions (not necessarily marriage, but if I'm in my twenties or thirties, and I have a good job, and I use protection and if I'm ready for the consequences for if the protection doesn't work, then why not?)