My 17 year old son is "dating" a 15 year old; I'm using the quotes because dating is being used loosely here--she's only allowed, by her parents, to see him at school and at her house.
After speaking to him, I'm fairly certain there's no sexual relations going on, but I'm still not satisfied with this situation. As a parent, I would never allow my 15 year old daughter to date a 17 year old (actually, almost 2.5 years difference).
I've told him I don't think it's wise that they date--that if they were to become sexually active then he could be charged with statutory rape--consent here is 16, period. No two years different, no same age...16 period.
My husband and I decided that he wasn't going to be able to use our car until he shapes up a little--he's been a bit irresponsible, running out of gas, breaking curfew (albeit, minorly), and his grades historically, could be better. We told him he can still go places, with certain stipulations, but he can't use our car until we see how his grades are in 9 weeks. We were also hoping this would curtail their relationship a little without us having to have a big fight over it. I can't tell him not to see her--but that doesn't mean I have to approve of it.
At any rate, it apparently didn't work. Now this girl's MOTHER is going to come over and GET HIM on Saturday to take him to their house for the day. I guess they really trust and like him (which, of couse, is a good thing!)
Should I be doing more or is this going to just have to run it's course?
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