Is there no attraction to a married woman who is going through divorce?

Question

I have tried to put myself out there a little, and have kissed a couple men only. Have had great evenings, good conversation, and then they don't seem interested anymore. Friendly, but not wanting to go out again. Too much baggage? No one wants to deal with me as I am going through the divorce process? I really just want a male friend, no commitment, just someone to go have fun with. Dinner, drinks, movies...is that too much?

Answer 1

There is always attraction to women, no matter what situation they`re in. They are leaving because you are showing that you have not dealt with your emotions due to divorce. Maybe it`s an empty stare, or something that came up in conversation. Talking about your ex to be is a huge turn off for any guy.

Answer 2

Most men are gun-shy about a woman in the middle of divorce.   I'd say go out with people in groups for a while until you get stabilized after the divorce.    Join some local volunteers, church groups, evening classes. etc.   You will meet people and it will help you to get out more.

Once you are not looking, you will find a good guy to date.  

Answer 3

need to be up front with them and let them know your only looking for a good time. they think your on the rebound mayb