My husband (early 40s), in a matter of a couple months, started communicating with a high school sweetheart several states away (cell phone and IM), left the family (wife of 18 years and 2 daughters, middle and elementary school), is starting a new job and a new life with said girlfriend. He's had one visit to see her during this time, but spent countless hours on the phone and computer. His first month communicating to her was 2700 text messages excluding the time talking. He carries on like nothing is going on and what is worse is that he was devoted to his daughters, did numerous activities with them, and now says "they'll be alright, upset for a little while, but they'll be ok." From day 1 of discovery, I told him I didn't want a divorce, but he put things into high gear. Now he is several states away (since last week) and I still love the man. I have told him that I am devastated. Any feedback from anyone in my shoes (or his)?
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