Is there somebody out there going thru the same problem?

Question

I just have a question to ask. Let say you are working overseas and your spouse wants to make the marriage work and they are the ones that mess up. They tell you that they have drop there friendship with the person they was cheated with and work on the marriage. Let say a couple of wks ago a person called the house and asking your spouse to get into with somebody so they could call them. Your spouse tell you that they have told this person not to call the house anymore since they are not talking and they have a life to worry bout. So all this is on the answering machine but one day you call hm to check the call notes and the pass code has changed and you ask why they change it and they tell you that they don't want any confusing at all. They give you the new pass code without any agure so you are cool with that. So then before you hang up they normally tell you that they love you but they did not say anything about that. Yall hang up and you call back and say you did not say you love me but they end up laugh because they knew that you was going to call back. Is it something wrong with that picture or am I just tripping bout that. They tell you that they want the marriage and is willing to do whatever it takes to get the marriage back but do I have something to worry about.

Answer 1

I think they just forgot to say it.  If you want it to work you have to trust and forgive.

Answer 2

There'd be no way in h**l I would try to work it out with a cheater.  

Answer 3

i think i know someone in a very similar case with yours. so here's what i can say since i've seen it happen.

they don't really want your marriage to work. they're just running after your support. your money you're earning overseas.

although i hope this is not true to your situation but this things really did happen & are still happening. a lot of them!

be wise. the reason you doubt is because you see things. things they do which are really strange. and as you let them keep doing that to you, they will soon become expert on deceiving you.

there is nothing to work out if it doesn't worth it. give yourself a break. you deserve to be loved. others are waiting to mke you happy, you'll see.  

Answer 4

well I would make sure he doesnt work overseas anymore and you tell him if I hear or catch you cheating its over

Answer 5

Jealousy can eat your soul, You have to trust and feel secure in that. Communication is the key to any good relationship. You have to believe and trust what your mate tells you, be open and love will find the way to bring you comfort and security in your relationship. Always trust freely... Only until there is good reason not to trust. Solid proof of infidelity is a must have to make any life changing decisions.

Answer 6

Reading your question just gave me a headache! Please improve your language, for heaven's sake !

Answer 7

somethings just get forgottin if someone has something else on thier mind