I asked a question but I didn't explain myself very well, I learnt some really good information though like about the nature (genetics) vs nurture (experiences) idea etc. I want to know how to "be yourself" and how to work out who you are, for instance I might want to be funny (is that my self wanting to be funny) now I may not know how to be funny because I haven't had many "experiences" or don't have the genetics based around being funny so I buy a book on how to be funny and get the same information/knowledge I get from having experiences on the topic, is that another way to develop your personality. I'm confused that if I want to have a certain aspect of my personality I have to have an experience or certain genetics to do so. I'm also confused as to how to be yourself, theres the whole argument on my other question on how your personality is shaped etc but I want to know for instance how to know what I want to be and act like because if it's from experiences then I need to have.
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