Is there something SERIOUSLY wrong?? :(?

Question

IM POSTING IT TWICE COS I NEED ANSWERS!!!

Okay i posted a question about my legs ages and them clicking and grinding [go see it to catch up], so i went to the doctors and they couldn't find out what was wrong with me :(

So they've sent me to hospital which im due to go on the 21st of this month, so anyway i was talking about it with my friends the other day and a girl over heard.

She's a really nice, bright, down to earth girl who is very kind, :)

She mentioned that her mother works in the department where im going and then she said something thats bothered me...

She said something about it being for fractures,specialise in legs [which i knew] then she said it ws for bone cancer aswell. '_'

This is where it bothered me.

Ever since ive been thinking about it non stop and having nightmares too. As ive waited over a month for my appointment my condition has gotten worse :(

I shake on a night really bad [i dont tell my mother]

I have dizzy spells

Feel sick

Get cold

Hair falls out [only aa little bit, when brushing or w/e]

Weak etc

And now that this girl has said the bone cancer unit, i cant help but wonder if i have it or something along the lines of it. I don't think im paranoid or anything but now it is on my mind all the time and i cant focas. Everytime i see the support adverts on tv i panick thinking it might be happening to me.

Im terrified tbh, i keep having nightmares that im dying etc. Its awful. Im only 14 and i dont know much about this stuff and i need help really bad PLEASE :'( [cryinhg as writing this btw]

The unit im suppose to be going to havent told me what there are doing :s, ive heard its Xrays,bloods and other tests.

I just want to know if i COULD possibley have cancer or something else like that or ANYTHING eally.

I know non of you are doctors but this is my only hope to turn to unitll my hospital date.

Thanks in advace x*x

My friend thinks i should add this:

I used to perdg [only do it a few times now] and i take weight loss pills. Im not fat but i dont feel happy with myself.

Is this anything connected perhaps?

Its NOT arthritis the doctor confirmed that the other week.

Answer 1

Believe nothing you hear and half of what you see. They are probably guessing and don't know anything about it, or are repeating something someone else said and so and you know how things like that end up, completely turned around from the original gossip. You don't have any cancer so quit worrying about that. I believe your problem is stemming from your  add this: I don't know what perdg is but I suspect make yourself vomit. And your taking weight loss pills. If you are not fat, and just not happy with yourself, why the weight loss pills at all. I believe you should stop what you are doing and get off those pills as soon as possible. Maybe in a few days, your symptoms with the legs will go away. There is a natural way to lose weight and that is by watching what you eat, drink plenty of water, (If not legs may click or grind) and of course the best thing is exercise. You need to stop worrying about the worse thing's in life and think more positive. You know beauty is only skin deep. The real beauty lies within the heart. Once you have the tests done wherever, they will probably tell you the same thing, get off the pills and stop with the vomiting. Eat right and keep it down, and exercise. Your to young to be going through with what you are probably causing by what you are doing to yourself. Please young lady, take another look at life and just how beautiful it is, change your ways for the better and live life to it's fullest. Wherever you go or whatever you do, do it with a smile on your face, love in your heart and peace in your mind. People will be drawn to you for what they see and are feeling, because you will have a glow about you, and they'll want it also. I'm wishing for you the very best young lady and the best of luck in the near future and forever.

Answer 2

Listen to me dear, Im no doctor but I have some medical knowledge. The symptoms you are describing does not look like bone cancer to me althought Im not sure what it could be, but here are the symptoms of bone cancer :

PAIN : may occur with movement, activity or even at rest

          comes on gradually

          may awaken you from your sleep

          may be immediate if it results from a broken bone

SWELLING OR LUMP: may appear red

                                   may appear warm to the touch

Please dont think the worst dear, you are most likely fine and Im sure the doctors there are experienced and will know how to treat the problem you have as soon as they know for sure whats causing it. Remember there are many others things that could be causing these symptoms and im sure your doctor will know what to do.

Please let me know how it goes after your appointment, I know your scared and I really do care.

My name is Mandy

my email is : [e-mail]

I would be glad to help in any way I can

Answer 3

It would be helpful if you gave more details about the symptoms. I tried to find a previous question, but only found one that was exactly the same as this post.

Anyway, the best thing you can do is talk to your mother or father about your fears. Holding them in will just prolong your anxiety over this. Just tell them everything that is going on with you and it will be a big relief. Parents want to help you. They are more understanding than you may realize.