Is there somewhere I belongs?

Question

I went out with friends today~ I played with them, and I play online games tonight with them. Its world of warcraft that I played. However, I still feel lonely. Last week I went out with my mom to my cousin's graduation, we had a big party for her. I thought that maybe when I'm surrounded by people, I wont feel alone. The fact is, I still feel lonely. Even when I had a girlfriend (she broke up with me 5 months ago), I still feel distant... do I have problems. Sometimes I got a feeling that I'm just too weird to blend into the society... I got a feeling that people always put their ideals into me and make me the way they want me to be. If I follow my way... I'll just end up to be a social outcast~ If I follow their way, I wont be happy~ so... what now~ Is there somewhere I belongs? Where I can be myself and be accepted?

Answer 1

I am not sure how old you are, you sound young, but there are plenty of places to belong, you just have to be approachable, accept people as you want to be accepted, listen to them as you want to be listened to, if you extend yourself for others, you will lose yourself in the moment and forget the lonliness, you might volunteer at any needy organization to help others, call a friend and go to a movie you both want to see, share some popcorn and then discuss the movie, write a letter to some of your family and establish contact, if you just sit home alone, you will be alone, get out and enjoy life, go swimming, jogging, get a job mowin grass.  There are church singles groups that meet regularly for activities (our church does, Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints) there are youth groups who do various jobs in the community.  Don't wait for people to come to you, go to them and start a conversation,. Maybe you could do with some counseling to overcome your feelings of lonliness, hope this helps, a friend, Ellen (I am a young grandmother)

Answer 2

be yourself and in this day and age things are going downhill as always for society.my only advice i can give is be with family,trust only close family members,and cherish those moments.other than that.forget how others will label you or how they look at you.fitting in with society is not the answer.like what you like and dont let anyone brainwash you differently.^_^

Answer 3

Keep on looking, you'll find it. Took me a couple decades but I found an organization where I am highly valued and highly value the people around me.

Actually I slowly built the organization by finding people who are similar to me and share the same cause.

So maybe create your own way, and pick up people along the way who are going in the same direction?