Is there still a chance??

Question

Okay i am sorry but this is going to be long... but i really want to hear what you all have to say. My ex broke up with me about a year ago.. the reason why he broke up with me was because he was so busy and also because that caused problems when ever we tried to plan to see eachother or to go out. Because of this i became a little too emotional. And now that i look back i just regret not trying to find a solution or work things out without getting emotional and frustrated. But he claimed that we just needed a break. (which was just another way or saying break up) Anyway, its been a long time and I can finally say that im in a good place.. my ex and i are friends. And we actually still hangout occasionally with a group and he is always the one to text message me or email me. But just when i thought i was completly over him.. i begin to question myself. I still find that when we talk we have this instant connection and i still miss how close him and I once were. I just wonder if theres any chance in the future? ???

Answer 1

there is. there always is.

Answer 2

Of course there is a chance. Just don't put your life on hold "just in case". In other words, don't turn down other dates just because you might have a chance with this guy.

Answer 3

yes, especially since u guys are still connected (and Im only going by ur point of view).  if u guys still fool around, be careful with that as that he can be gettin the milk for free without buying the cow.  I'll tell u that if I REALLY was into a girl, i would try to make it work, especially if she is too.  now if he has like 3 jobs, works and goes to school or lives far away, then yes, it would be hard and then u prolly need to part.  maybe he was confused and did need a break, but just be careful, no need to get caught up because his head might be somewhere else or with someone else, just go with the flow and when u "feel" the time is right, bring it up but dont force anything, forcing things will only set up failure, show interest but dont force....

Answer 4

i was in a simular situation not very long ago, me and my boyfriend dated and we were best friends and i really like him, but he had to go back to a different state to live with his mom, and it was hard but i finally got over him, and we eventually started talking again, there was no hard feelings, then he would come down to visit his dad and we would hang out, and then it felt like all the feelings i had for him came back. we still talk and keep in touch for the most part, but i still feel like if i would have tried a little harder we could have made it work.

sorry if you read all that, but what i am trying to get to is that i guess you just remember what feelings used to be there and you remember all the good times you had together and that makes you miss him and think that maybe things could go back to how it was before, sometimes that is the case and you can get back together, but sometimes its just the pure thought of what might have been, its human to miss what you used to have in a relationship. its just all a part of experiencing it and learning from it.

Answer 5

I am no expert for sure, but I would say that if you two are still that close of friends then yes there is a chance, It could even be better than before

Answer 6

leave him

Answer 7

Yes Melissa you are right when you said that you cant get over him. The act of still being frens with him say it all out isn't it.

Anyway it takes two to tango and if you really want it to happen why not .. try to revive the relation which you already have before and try to accept him logically instead of with your deep emotion which what happen the last time .