Is there such thing as karma/what goes around comes around/you get what you give (non-religious)?

Question

The first guy I slept with (big mistake on my part, did it way too soon with him) was already involved with someone he was cheating on. He didn't tell me but used me for s*x until I found out about her and ended it. I never loved him (too soon for that) but just wanted to be treated well but I was humilated and used. He married the girlfriend and now has mega-bucks!

Will he ever 'get his'? Or not? Does what goes around come back around when you least expect it? Or am I over-reacting and making what he did out to be worse than it is?

Older YA users, I am particularly interested in your opinions...

Answer 1

He may get his.  If he cheated on her with you he'll probably do it again.  He might get caught.  Maybe an angry husband, boyfriend or father will teach him a lesson someday, maybe not.  Don't worry about it.

Answer 2

Even if his world is miserable he won't let on. Just believe that even though he seems to "have it all" that he is truly unhappy. But he sounds like the kind of person who pretends to be happy in order to "keep up with the Jones'." Sorry.

Answer 3

yes, what goes around comes around. just let it go. you also got something out of it. we always learn from our own mistakes. i know i have. i got what i desired also. its karma.

Answer 4

yes

there is karma and sometimes you may not see it but everyone gets it back sooner or later in their lifetime!

believe!