Is there such thing as signs? HELP ME PLEASE?

Question

Lately I have been thinking about my best friend. We grew up with each other and we called ourselves brother and sister. So anyway I haven't seen him in about 10 years and then one day on the internet I just happened to come across a county sheriff/jail site and was going through the names and saw his name on the inmate list. His pic was there and everything. Then a few days later I heard our song. Without you by Mariah Carey.And the song was in an e-mail. So it wasn't just like I heard it passing by somewhere, it was directed to me. I haven't heard that freakin song in years. Can these be signs? Is he at a bad point in his life(other than just being in jail) and need me? Should I go to him? Help me. Its been so long I don't know what to do but the connection between us is still there. I can feel it.

Answer 1

i not syre if he really needs you or not but if you feel as if he do he just might do visit him

Answer 2

I dont believe in signs the way you mean it... you saw his picture, so you had him on your mind when you heard the song from that era.

No harm in contacting him, just friendly, to support him. But see how he is now; if he has been an angry or violent person for some of the last 10 years he is NOT the boy you knew any more, you can regret that but it is not up to you to give of yourself now for old times sake. If he is just stuck in a bad spot, has hit rock bottom with this and is looking forward not back, you may be just the support he needs. But make sure it is mutual, dont be used.

Answer 3

Sometimes we do get these incredible coincidences happening in our lives and it has happened to you!  If you feel as though your "brother" needs your help, then contact the county jail and see about visiting him.  You may be able to run an errand for him or pass a message on to someone else.  To help him in the best way that you can would be a very noble and good deed.

Answer 4

If you can help him.........pls go ahead.

Answer 5

Listen to your heart