Is thinking this realistic or just crazy?

Question

okay so im not naming names or saying who thinks what because i dont want to get a bias opinion.

so if you were 18 and your girlfriend of 2 years was 17 almost 18 and you got her pregnant,

is it crazy to think that she could have it and you not tell your family and give it up for adoption without anyone knowing she got pregnant [besides her family]

and say that you still want to be with her and be here for her during her pregnancy and everything? but when she tells your family you tell her you dont want to be with her and to forget about you?

is this crazy and immature or is this something that can be done

Answer 1

Crazy and immature.

Answer 2

It is crazy for him to think that he can get away with it if he's going to keep the baby.  If he has some issues in his family that would make life miserable for him if they knew he had gotten you pregnant, (since you are underage!!!!) then perhaps he should keep it to himself.

If you two are planning to keep the baby, he should tell his family at his own pace.  It is a hard thing to talk about for some people.  Let him do this at his own pace, and for heavens sakes girl, don't spill the beans and tell them yourself.  This would put a HUGE wedge between you two, and he's going to resent you for a LONG time.  It is HIS family, he knows them better than you.  Really, he's 18, and its his own business.

Answer 3

I would say thats crazy, and almost impossible to pull off....since you know, word of mouth and people always get into talking about other peoples business thats none of their own...

Answer 4

just meditate that ur not pregnant and the baby will go away.

Answer 5

uhhhh seems like the dad is a real d-o-u-c-h-e bag

he can't just try and hide something like that!

I say if the girl has any regret's she should have also waited and thought about what the boyfriends final decision would have been.

but still.........That girl really need's to teach him a lesson >:D if your thinking of what I'm thinking ( which is sabotage )

in conclusion- No, it's not even on the same scale as immature, That s**z is just plain MEAN and UNRESPONSIBLE. i smell a law suit

Answer 6

What the h**l are you talking about?  

Good luck keeping it a secret.  If she wants to keep it, you WILL be paying child support, whether you stay with her or not.  

Are you trying to bully her into giving the kid up for adoption?  

Answer 7

"is it crazy to think that she could have it and you not tell your family and give it up for adoption without anyone knowing she got pregnant [besides her family]"

i know two people personally (good friends) that this happened to and neither told their parents actually...she had the baby and gave it up for adoption...as a matter of fact...he was 17 and she was 18. and they still have contact with the adopting family, and are still happily together.  

Answer 8

Just crazy