Is this 6 year old school girl logic?

Question

I remember when I was in school a boy used to pinch me all the time and after a while he told me he liked me (we were 11, suffice to say it didn't go very far lol ; ) I'm 23 now and there's this guy at work who I think *might* like me but I can't tell. Over the phone he is very loud. He's one of those "bad boy" types, but face-to-face he is very quiet and he will stand and listed to everything which I say. He's the kind of guy who would tell you to f off, but he's actually nice to me. Do you think he might like me, or am I reading too much into things?

I'm asking here because I seem to get better answers in this forum and love/infatuation is all the same ; )

Answer 1

With the boldness of a six year old girl you should ask him in an equally loud manner "Do you like me boy?"

The way that he might be one way on the phone and then quiet in person is a bit  unsettling...but this can be good or bad depending on how you feel about it.

Answer 2

yeah i think so. if he calls you a lot and listens to you i think he really likes you. yeah, i've known guys that are like that.

Answer 3

The bad boy types are usually more confident and if he stops the bad boy attitude when he is near you it means that he likes you.

Answer 4

i don't understand the connection between the 1year old and now but at least he is not hiding the bad boy stuff for you to discover later.

just ensure he knows you like him for his behaviour with you , and as long as this is how he is (with you! ) things will be great.

good luck.

Answer 5

I agree with the 1st answerer. It would only be a matter of time before he started being abusive toward you. I see people like this all the time and they're just big arrogant bullies. Do you really want to be associated with someone like that? BY the way, why is your question in the L*****n and g*y catagory

Answer 6

If he isn't the same with you when you are with his friends,as he is when you are only with each other,then don't bother,because he's too immature.

Answer 7

Do you really want to hang out with some one who will tell other people to f*** off in front of you?  Even if he's nice to you that's an embarassing situation to be in all the time.  

Answer 8

His bad behaviour is pure bravado!

If he really IS nice when alone, perhaps YOU may be the one to sort him out!

Answer 9

When you've had 10 to 15 years of his being a mouthy pillock in front of your friends, family and neighbours... How ya gonna feel ?

He's going to end up loving his BMW M3 more than he loves you, and when you get youre first wrinkle... It'll be " SEEYAAAAA !!!"

Just my view.

Answer 10

Love and infatuation are very different actually,

but we will Leave that out for now.

Maybe he is a jerk and you evoke the nicer side of him to come out because he already knows he is a loud mouth guy and he does not want you to see that.

If he goes around telling people off but is selective of a few he is a jerk in nature and kind to those he chooses based on what he sees in them that would make him cover it up.

I don't think the special treatment towards you has an underline " I like her" tone more so a, "If I treat this nice girl badly then I am really an A$$h*le because her hand doesn't call for that" tone.

If you like him, maybe you are the one to help him balance the scale a bit and help him with the other issues he clearly has.

The bad boy rebel without a cause behavior it's uncalled for and quite unnecessary.

Answer 11

So, he is an arrogant loud mouthed yob that only behaves near you - good luck with that