Is this Sexual Harassment ?

Question

4 years ago i had this "boyfriend" but we never kiss or else we just hold hands.now he is telling all the school that we had s*x . the funny thing is that i've never kiss someone before.

(obviously I'm virgin)

WHAT SHOULD I DO????

Answer 1

If its not true then why do you care?

Answer 2

You should go up to him, slap him across the face, and tell him to quit spreading filthy lies about you.

Answer 3

You can realize that boys can be jerks and this boy is using you to give himself some experience that he's clearly never had either. Just let it go - people say things and they're  not always nice or true and as long as you can be confident in yourself and realize that Karma is gonna bite him in the butt - you'll be fine.

Answer 4

No, its not harassment.  Its not defamation or anything else that should be addressed through the legal system.

Tell everyone that he tried, but he couldn't get it up.  And the only time he could get it up, he prematurely 'discharged' before anything could happen.

Also note that its tiny.  Tell people that it looks like a little button on a fur coat.

Answer 5

this is 'slander' on his part telling of lies about your relationship with him

Answer 6

If that's the worst thing that ever happens to you you should be in good shape.  Everybody probably knows he's BSing.  Just the same, confront him and tell him to knock it off.  Or, you can go scorched earth and tell everybody you tried to have s*x with him, but his p***s was too small to get in there.  Lots of scorched earth opportunities.

Answer 7

you can file a case in small claims court for defamation of character.

Answer 8

Simple...Fight fire with fire.  

If he wants to spread that rumor, you just need to spread the rumor that he has a really really small 'you know what.'

That should shut him up.

Answer 9

No, that's not sexual harassment.

It's probably not even defamation of character, since you have a chance to respond.

Whatever you decide to do, it's not really a legal issue.

Answer 10

Yes, this is indeed sexual harassment.

Very cruel too, because this boy is seeking to destroy your reputation at school amongst your peers.

Tell your parents, tell your headmaster, tell your teachers.

Don't let him get away with it.

Answer 11

you cant send him to jail as you are still in school and under age.

All you can do is ask for a teachers help or your parents help. But if you have the guts, go and slap him in front of everybody to teach him a lesson!

Answer 12

No, its not harrassment.

But

Here's what you do... a little reconnaissance. You need to dig up some dirt... something really embarrassing.

You then need to confront him in front of the friends that he thinks are cool and asking him why he is telling everyone that he slept with you.... wait for his answer, if it seems he isn't remoursefull, slap him in the face,  spill the beans on his embarassment, and walk away.