Is this a bad feeling to have?

Question

I'm 17 about to go to university in the fall of '09. My life at my house is okay. I mean parents are okay, i have stuff, they love me, i love them, but i just cant ******* wait to move out. I can not stand living at home really. I need my freedom. Is this normal?

Answer 1

Totaly normal

Your old enough to go out on your own and live your life as an adult!

Your ready to be indapendent.

Answer 2

Yes its normal. You are on the launching pad of adulthood. You are suppose to have such feelings. Don't act on them until your plan is solid and you have the means. Allow yourself to feel what you feel, give yourself some space, help mom and dad to accept that you are entering a new phase of life by being responsible and courteous. Until its time this is all you can do so be patient. Don;t feel guilty either for feeling age appropriate feelings. God help you if you never felt that way and here you were at age 45 content on mom and dad's couch lol. Enjoy your age. Youth goes by quickly, make the most of every day, every event and every happiness.

Answer 3

Tremendously normal.  Most of it is the freedom part, and you will find out, once you move out, that you do have nothing but freedom.  But with it comes a lot more responsibilities and you will be imprisoned in a different kind of way really.  You exchange staying out late and not having anyone tell you what to do for bills and other expenses.  But it is worth it.  Since you are young, if you have your parents or financial aid paying the bill, then it is definitely worth it!  

Just think about your future though, and don't rush it.  However, the first thing you will miss is the little things that happen when you have people looking after you.  The first thing I noticed was the quality of food in my diet changed dramatically... lol.  Whatever you didn't like that your mom or dad cooked, you will crave by the end of the school year, simply because it's actually a meal that will actually fill you up and isn't noodles, or because it simply isn't caked in grease or shrink wrapped at the dorm deli.  LoL.  Good luck though.

Answer 4

Yes this is very normal , and believe me your parent's can't wait for you to be gone and standing on your own 2 feet..of course only when you are a mature , responsibly , man. When you move from home always keep in  touch with them and then everyone will be happy .

Answer 5

Totally normal, be happy!  Most people want to get out of the house and gain some independence.  Just remember to act responsibly once you gain it.

Answer 6

Buddy, I'm only 15 and I can't wait to move out. I love my family to death but I need freedom! Woo!