She is only 2 months younger than me. (half-sister, same father) We grew up together and we were always very close. When we were 12 or 13, I can't remember exactly, she got freaked out about not knowing how to kiss. Silly, I know, but it was a huge problem for her. She suggested we try on each other. And we did. It was more of a practice, clumsy really. We've only done it for that one period (maybe a few weeks)
I've never thought much of it and neither has she. (or at least she's never mentioned it to me)
Now she is going through this therapy because of our childhood (mainly because our father was a s****t) but this came up during her therapy and her therapist said I took advantage of her. She came to me with this whole list of things I did to her, like how I used her to get through to my father (which is true, because it was obvious that he liked my sister more and I thought we were acting as a team when she would pretend she wanted something I wanted, or when she ''saved'' me from his punishments, etc.)
Her therapist told her that I have a hidden sexual interest in her which is why I stayed so close to her all my life. I reminded her that kissing was her idea, but she won't have it.
She refuses to talk to me. She says I ruined her life.
Seriosly, can therapists actually s***w up their patients this much? My sister is a completely different person now.
I made an appointment with the same therapist - just to explain, I wanted us to do sessions together - but her therapist says it isn't healthy and that I have to live with what I have done to my sister.
But I haven't done anything!!!
What should I do?
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