Is this a bad way to quit my job?

Question

im supposed to be in at 12 today, but i wrote them an e-mail on the jcpenney website telling them that yesterday was my last day. i wrote it this morning. i just cant take it anymore and i told them my grandmother has recently become sick. and she needs our care

thats the truth

but what i didnt tell them was that i cant stand it there. i hate standing. i hate retail im not the type of person to like that. the customers are rude and the fitting rooms stink. and im supposed to be in womens and they put me on for juniors. not that i mind that though. but im supposed to be a recovery associate and they have me doing cash registers as well and i have no idea what i am doing. the other girl who is recovery , she does not have to do the cash registers. im so confuzed! and i kind of feel bad because i didnt tell my parents yet. i just told them that they told me i dont have to come in this weekend! but what excuse can i use for when monday comes! answers please! do i just say i got fired? what? and no dont tell me to tell them the truth! THANKS

Answer 1

Well, it isn't a good way, but at least you gave them some notice and a reason.  I hate to sound cliche, but everyone hates their first job. You didn't quit too badly, so you may still get a decent reference.  Check with employment agencies like Kelly or Manpower, they may be able to help you find something you enjoy.

Tell your parents the truth, they will find out anyway, save yourself that grief and stress.  Think about things  you enjoy and see if you can find something along those lines. If you love animals, check with vets, riding camps (if there are any in your area). If you like kids, check with day cares.

Answer 2

normally I would say that is not a good way to quit your job, but under the circumstances you described, understandable, although you could call them unless you're sure they check the email regularly.

if you don't want to tell your parents the truth, sure tell them you were fired.

but in the long run, i think you will be happier and have a more successful  life if you learn how to deal with "confrontation". For example, why did you not go to your supervisor and say a) I thought I was going to be doing x, y,z and now I'm actually doing a, b,c, why is that?  And/or  b) either ask for training or make a list of specific question that you need  the answer to so you can do your job efficiently.