Is this a condition?

Question

I'm 15 years old and I'm on summer break. Id think one of the things I'm doing is hanging out with friends, but to my surprise, i don't want to. Lots of my friends are always asking me to hang out, but i always put them down, mostly b/c I don't feel like doing anything with them or even being with people. It's not laziness, b/c I like doing things with my bros or family. And if i do say yes and go out with friends i always end up acting crabby...with out really intending to do so. Is this a condition? is there something wrong with me? will it pass? is it really just that i need a break from people?

....its also kinda loosening some friendships. idk what to do.

Answer 1

I don't think it's a condition.

The same thing sort of happens with me, and chances are, it's just because you've seen them enough already.

The best thing you could do for you AND your friends would be to take a break from them. Explain what you're feeling, and they should understand. If they don't understand and get angry, then hey, you'll still be taking a break.

True friends will understand and survive time and distance.

Answer 2

i know what you mean. i used to go out all the time and make plans and go over my friends houses and go to town and stuff. but now, i really just don't want to do anything. i feel almost seperate. and when i do go out i always tell myself to be the life of the party or just let loose. but i end up just wanting to go home. i mean this isn't ALL the time, but i mean it's affecting my life.

and i think you're in the same situation. i've looked it up and it's one of 3 things: derealization, depersonalization, dissociative disorder. but i seriously doubt you have that. but what you're describing could be something leading up to that. because since you're thinking what you're feeling is a condition, you just want to treat it and feel right again. but while you're out you know you're not right in your mind, so you crab out. it could also mean you need a break from people. that's the one of the things i use summer for. cause why hang out in the summer when you see the SAME people every single day at school.

i'd suggest seeing somesort of therapist just to see what it is. but i doubt you want to do that cuase i'm nervous o do that too because if it's nothing serious i'd make an *** of myself. just take 10 really deep breaths before you go to bed, before you go out... i did that a couple times and it helped.

Answer 3

We all need some sort of balance in our lives. I believe what you are going through is just normal to people your age, so don't worry too much about this. We all need to spend some alone time every now and then. If you still are worried about what you are going through right now, then talk to your parents. I'm sure they know what to tell you more than I do and how to make you feel better.

Answer 4

maybe your just having mood swings or something like that,

Answer 5

thats whats happen to me to it was always me n mi two bffers n then the one just really never called or wanted to hang not cause of a fight just not wanting to get ready or go out!! i think its because were not wit eachother eveyday ..like in school i see my bffers everyday so we hang more u no once school starts ur want to hang n go out... its the end of summer blues!!