Is this a good or bad situation?

Question

ok here's the situation:

I really like a girl, but she's going out with a guy right now, she says she dates a lot of guys so idk how long it's gonna last, but here's the reason why I'm asking this, SHE KNOWS I LIKE HER!!! She ask me when I was talking to her on AIM and I answered that I like her and I explained why I like her (she's cute, VERY pretty, polite, smart, ect.) and we used t be friends but now it's kinda akward when I'm near her. I start to see black every time I'm near her and I think I'm gonna faint every time. IDK what to do please help! I also asked her if she liked me she said as a friend. and the guy she's been dating with they've been going out for I think half a year. So please any advice for me will be appreciated . Also please tell me if this is a good or bad situation!

FYI I haven't talked to her since then except a little bit in AIM though I haven't talked to her about breaking up with her BF or anything like that I haven't talked to her about that I like her since I told her in AIM I just talk to her since we are friends and act like that never happened

Answer 1

You can't do anything about it. I'm in a situation where I'm nervous as h**l to talk to this one girl in my Algebra class. I have no clue. All I know is that I need the same help you do.

But it's never good to interfere in a relationship.

Answer 2

i don't think this is a bad situation...just bad timing...If she is as nice as you say, she can't just drop her boyfriend for no reason...I think she would be cool to have as a friend..but you should slowly start trying to replace her with someone who is actually available....If you slowly limit your contact with her, you're chances for happiness with someone else will only increase.

Answer 3

The fact is she has a boyfriend in her life at this time.Out of respect I would put some distance between you to.It can't be easy to like someone as much as you say and try to be their friend when there's nothing you can do.I know for a fact there are plenty of girls out there that share her same qualities that you can direct your focus on.I hope this helps you out.Good luck and God bless.

Answer 4

She asked you if you liked her but did she ask you to explain why or did you offer it to her? I think it sounds like this girl likes to hear that you like her cause it is an ego boost to her. you also need to look at it like this she could be telling her BF about this guy that is crazy about her so that he will pay her more attention. I know it sounds shady, but trust me I am a girl and I have done this before. So take my advice and just drop her and move on. Hope this helps

Answer 5

Well first of all, she has a boyfriend. And second of all, she told you she only likes you as a friend. So maybe she just wants to be friends with you.

Answer 6

I really have to comend you for being honset with her, but it sounds like she hasn't looked at you in that way and it may have just startled her. She does have a BF, but on the other hand if she didn't like you why would she ask.....Let it rest for now and if it is going to be it will....besides you could always befriend her BF to get the real scoop on her...this way it looks like to her that you are just a all around great guy!!  

Answer 7

If she said she likes you as a friend, you dont really have a chance.

Of course, if you give it time, she may start to like you.  It happens a lot, when people start finding people irrisistable that they used to never think about.