Is this a normal pet peeve about the opp. s*x?

Question

I know every1 has their own pet peeves but mine is p**n. I can't stand it at all. That and infidelity are the 2 things I will NOT tolerate--I just feel like it devalues the sanctity of a human being by watching them for nothing more than stimulation. Ikh & it turns me off to everything romantic & INTIMATE.

Anyone else? Your thoughts or pet peeves!? :D

Answer 1

mine is pretty much the same thing

Answer 2

You're completely right.  In a way, it IS infidelity - infidelity of the mind.  Intimacy is about two people being vulnerable and experiencing pleasure together; p**n is about using another person for your pleasure and your pleasure alone.  

Answer 3

Infidelity is my biggest pet peeve, it is a deal breaker for me. p**n, on the other hand, while I'm not really fond of it I can tolerate it. The whole "look but don't touch" thing. I know my boyfriend isn't dead, so he will look from time to time.

If the p**n were to replace our s*x life, then I'd be more concerned about it.

My two cents. :}

Answer 4

i love p**n, and i dont care if anyone i know watches it, its personal and often separate from the relationship..."devaluing the sanctity of a human being". i see u got bashed in the head with a bible as a kid.

Answer 5

Well they make p**n for guys. I geuss that would be normal for a girl to think that.  

Answer 6

thats what she said

Answer 7

I guess I see not putting up with p**n or cheaters as common sense......don't know that I'd classify it as a pet peeve.

Luck

Answer 8

I am KIND OF with you, however the people actually making the p**n made a choice, so I don't feel watching it devalues them...the devalue part came when they decided to get naked and have s*x in front of a camera for money.

I don't watch p**n for other reasons.. 1- To me looking at another man's private parts, rather real or on TV, and becoming aroused, is border line g*y, rather you are watching him..or watching him and a woman....you are still looking at him. 2- Watching a woman have s*x on TV is like looking at the cake through glass.

3-  (this is the BIG one)   If I were in a bar and some woman came up to me and asked me for s*x, and I agreed... then we got back to her place and while in the process I hear something coming from the closet...get up and open the door and there stands this guy who has been watching us....

I'd think to myself "what a derranged freaked up individual that guy is" but lets be honest... what is the difference in him hiding in a closet and watching two people have s*x for his pleasure...and some guy sitting at home doing the same thing but its on TV?

I agree with you in the fact that I don't watch p**n...although me not watching it is for other reasons.

Answer 9

You have your right to your opinion. Nobody is forcing you to watch it. I wonder how you define "devalues" and "sanctity" of human beings. Seems to me like you are devaluing humanity by trying to present a perfectly normal human activity as something that needs to be stomped out. I suppose we need to establish a test tube breeding program so humans will no longer have to engage in such a disgusting act as intercourse.

Answer 10

"I just feel like it devalues the sanctity of a human being by watching them for nothing more than stimulation"

Men and women aspire to be great and civilized.  Pornography though, is ONLY a reminder of our basic instincts.  Men are here to love women. Women are here to bare children (at the most BASIC level).  We are equal on ALL other subjects. i.e. DONT PLACE IMPORTANCE ON p**n.

p**n is the most basic, raw, form of self preservation.  It's a SIMPLE FACT that without s*x, mankind would never continue.  s*x and PRESENTATION of it should not be viewed as absurd.  It should be seen as basic, essential, to human existence. Continuance.  Life.

Answer 11

most guys look at p**n or will lie to you and say that they don't but will when you are not around. so go find a devout religious closed minded southern baptist or a Cristian that believes the same as you or you maybe in for disappointment. or you can lower your standards some and have tolerance that some people are not like you.    

Answer 12

Well on your point about how it isnt romantic I'm gonna have to say that--oh wait hold on I got a bo.ner, brb masturbating

Answer 13

is there a question here?

Answer 14

men are hard wired to be visual, so your pet peeve is just being intolerant of some one who has different biological needs. in effect your declaring because you find it this way he must be wrong because every thing you thing is right

such rubbish

so my pet peeve is intolerant self righteous people like you

Answer 15

idk i loled all over myself reading that big who cares

Answer 16

p**n? I don't get why it's such a big deal. It's not like we love you any less or think you're not beautiful, it's just part of being a man. Even when I'm having great s*x with a beautiful girl, I'll occasionally fell the need to m********e and watch p**n. Not sure why tho... btw I think its hot if a girl will watch a porno with me.

My pet peeves are improper grammar and weird abbreviations in texts. I mean, a grown woman should use proper English, even if she is trying to be cute. I also hate it when people say "lol", "rofl', ect... in person.

Answer 17

nope its normal..

Answer 18

conservatives.

Answer 19

I HATE when my boyfriend watches p**n. It makes me feel like I don't satisfy him enough...

Answer 20

then find someone else who doesnt like p**n.