Is this a serious step in a relationship?

Question

I'm 20 years old, and my boyfriend recently gave me a 10K gold bracelet that was his grandmother's before she died. He said that his grandma had told him to "give it to the girl he loves most." I think it's a lovely gift, but we've only been together for a month and I'm not to sure if we should be this serious, this soon. Would you be scared if you we're in my shoes?

Oh, and please don't say I don't love him enough or something, because I do, and remember you don't know me.

Answer 1

yes i would. be honest with him no matter what.

Answer 2

omg. yes. lucky that's cute. not too big a deal, just an i-care-about-you gesture.

Answer 3

Well there are several factors..First off a month is too soon for such an act I think. Second, knowing that the owner of something is dead and I'm wearing it kinda gives me the creeps. And I don't think you can truly love someone in only a months time of knowing them, maybe really like them but not love them. Just my thoughts.

Answer 4

I think that he is just trying to show you how much you mean to him. If he isn't very open about things or doesn't say stuff all the time this could be his way. I think you should be fine. Talk to him and see how he feels about it.