Is this a sign that he's mad?

Question

This morning I left a letter on his desk and he read it while i was pretending to be asleep and when he went to work he said bye honey to my mom and i yelled from my room " bye daddy " and he's like bye and he blew a kiss but he wasnt smiling like he usually does. Which is why im afraid he's mad! I hope he's not. If you were him and you did that would you be mad? or would you just be upset?

Answer 1

IT DEPENDS ON WHAT YOU WROTE IN THE LETTER, FROM HIS REACTION, HE SEEMS A LITTLE DISTURB BY WHATEVER YOU WROTE, BUT HOPEFULLY HE WILL ADJUST  TO HELP RESOLVE WHATEVER WAS IN THE LETTER.....OK, NOW I JUST READ WHAT THE LETTER WAS....YO DID GOOD IN ADMITTING THE TRUTH TO HIM  AND YOUR MOM, I'M SURE YOU WILL BE FORGIVEN, DON'T FEEL BAD, PARENTS CAN LOOK OVER MISTAKES THEIR KIDS MADE AS WE FORGIVE THEM OF THE ONES THEY MAKE...

Answer 2

You're his daughter, therefore you will never do anythng that will cause him to disown you or anything. As far as being mad, he's probably upset, but he'll get over it. He's got to respect you for coming clean, as well. He probably didn't smile, because the letter was still sinking in.

Answer 3

He is very angry

Answer 4

what did you do?

we need more details about why he would be mad.

I don't get the letter.

did you show some stanger a nude pic of you?

Answer 5

Your not the only one who has troubles with their dad.... anyways, just because your dad didn't smile at you doesn't mean he's mad. he was probably just in a hurry to get to work and didn't remember to smile. men quite frequently do that. and your mom should be proud of you for taking responsibility of your actions and telling him yourself.

Answer 6

It is good that you told the truth.  It is important to maintain trust with your parents, and the fact that you were honest is commendable.  It is likely that your dad is a little upset over the incident, and that is to be expected.  You and him are going to need a little chat to discuss the letter and what happened, but I think that once you two have a chat, things will be smoothed over, and ok.  You did the right thing, and it sometimes just takes a little time for the shock to dissipate.  

As for your mom, she should be proud that you were honest, and that you followed your gut instincts. (your heart will tell you what's the right thing to do, and you listened)  

Answer 7

I think your dad is going to be more angry with your mum-so i think she will probably be mad with you when she finds out you told your dad. In a marriage you have to be completely honest with each other and not keep secrets and your mum broke this by not telling your dad, just to save you. So I think your dad will be more angry with her.

Answer 8

I don't really get the letter...?

Answer 9

She will be proud of you it took allot of courage to tell your dad the truth and if she isn't proud then i am because it's always a good thing to have a Strong relationship with your parents and the fact that you are trying is great..

Your dad's probably not that mad he just doesn't know what to say... give him time to be your Super Hero

Answer 10

speak to your dad and find out for yourself is he is mad or not :) he is your dad, give him time and he'll be fine :) he loves you and NOTHING would ever stop you from being his little girl. just talk to both your parents, it is in the past but really, you should of told them straight away.

Answer 11

He was probably confused and puzzled as to just what the h**l you were saying.

Answer 12

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