Is this a stupid idea?(I think it is)?

Question

Ok two years ago me and a friend of mine who I love more than a friend of mine almost kissed before he left for two years and now is back.

Should I bring up the almost kiss? Should I ask him if he ever had any romantic feelings for me two years ago?

Answer 1

no, wait for him

or start flirting and talking more and he'll bring it up

you dont wanna seem too pushy

unless you guys both are in the mood, then bring it up while beating around the bush

Answer 2

bring itup and tell im he still owes you a kiss and make sound liek your kidding and sometimes guys take it seriously and then you will get your kiss and then bring up if he had a feelings for you

Answer 3

Whats your brain saying?

Whats your heart saying?

Because you always have to go with your heart!!

XoXo

Vanessa

Answer 4

Well.... if you're around him and in contact with him, I wouldn't really bring it up.... if he's into you, he'll bring it up and it's always better if the guy can make the first move if possible. Guys these days can get so lazy and we girls end up doing all the work and making all the effort.... if I were you, and if you like him and want there to be romantic feelings.... just get together with, talk.... play it by ear... see if you can tell what direction he wants to take things with out being too direct......also, please tell me when you say he's back after 2 yrs you been back from the army or back from school and not back from jail! lol If it's jail then just forget everything I said and run in the other direction! lol  

Answer 5

idiota

Answer 6

Definitely DON'T bring it up.  He may not even remember, and then it will be awkward.

Answer 7

Just stay casual. Since its been two years his love is either gone away or grown. If it grown he would def tell you all of his feelings.

Answer 8

You are both 2 years older and different people from what you were back then.

Almost only counts in horseshoes and hand grenades.

Answer 9

It was 2 years ago.  Move on.

Answer 10

Its not stupid but don't come on too strong as it can scare a guy off.

if he's back spend alot of time with him just hanging out and then mention in a slightly sarcastic way like do you remember when we almost kissed what would it be like now eh?

Answer 11

dont ask him that, but deff. make a move to take the relationship to the next level!

Answer 12

Leave the almost a kiss in the past, 2 years ago where it belongs. I Greatly doubt he has been spending 2years of sleeples nites over it. Rather rekindle your friendship and see where it goes from there.

Answer 13

I would ask it like this..."Have you ever wanted to kiss someone and didn't? and see if he remembers that moment too...if so maybe you want to take up where you left off....Good luck  

Answer 14

*****i think you could bring it up, but if it was me id go in for a kiss and this time make it happen. It might take the edge off if you make the first move!!!!

Answer 15

i woudnt..just catch up and if you still like him then tell him and ask him if he likes you back :)

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Answer 16

No, don't bring it up. It has been 2 years, you don't really know what happened in between. If you do go out, just relax, go with the flow and see what will happen.  

Answer 17

don't ask anything just go with the flow if will happen it will happen.

Answer 18

if you havn't talked to him yet then it is a stupid idea.

"hey how was ____(where ever he left)" you say "hey how about that almost kiss we had?"

yeah that's kind of lame. but if you have talked to him, just talk to eachother like you used to. and if that almost kiss comes again, then you know what to do :)

Answer 19

Don't do it. You could hurt your friendship that way. And you don't want that.

Answer 20

Yes, you are right. This is absolutely a stupid idea to bring up any incident which already happened in the past.

Answer 21

I dont think you should. A lot changes in two years. Just hang out and see if you two still like eachother. If you do, the kiss will happen. Don't bring up the past, it's been a while.  

Answer 22

this is definatly a stupid idea dont do it.

Answer 23

don´t tell him anything maybe he´ll bring it up

Answer 24

Nope. Unless you still think you have feelings for him, don't bring up the almost kiss.

Answer 25

Do not bring up an "almost kiss" if you want the guy then go get him.

Answer 26

start talking and get back in the flow of being friends and then go for it! you dont want to spend the rest of ur life wondering if there was something there right? maybe you could light that spark again now if you still have feelings for each other

Answer 27

Yes, if I had the chance to ask that question, I would.  You have nothing to lose.  

Answer 28

Bring it up, see if he seems interested. If he does, continue asking him if he had any feelings for you. If he did or still does, then he'll realize you do too.

good luck

<3

dan

Answer 29

no not yet

if you guys get in the position again and actually do kiss then maybe say something to him about it after that

otherwise it might make it awkward

Answer 30

Well is he cute?? Just kidding. Do what you feel is right.

Answer 31

A near kiss is still no kiss. Don't ask or talk about it, you are right it is stupid idea to ask. If both of you still are in contact, you may initiate going out on dates and let it flow along, if the romance can get started it will and just let nature nutures. It will come when it comes at the right time.