Is this a usual scenario in Scorpio and Capricorn relationship? How to get over the situation?

Question

I get so moody sometimes over a few simple things, no matter how I control it. I really try not to show him my temper, I try to withdraw and avoid him rather than facing him with the fire in my head. But he is very sensitive... He can always figure out that I have my tempers at the moment... I know he gets hurt. I get hurt too when he is hurt... : - (

What to do in this situation? Are we really compatible for a long term relationship? Can a Capricorn man bear a moody Scorpio woman?

Answer 1

Sexually you are great, but oh so volatile out of the bedroom...it works better if one of you has some age and experience.

Answer 2

Some of the key phrases you have used lead me to believe you both have a communication problem.  Phrases such as; "I get so moody", "I try not to show him my temper", "I try to withdraw and avoid him".

If you are moody, instead of trying to stifle your moodiness, it would be best if you try  to understand what is making you moody and work at it from that point.  

As you stated, by not showing him your temper doesn't mean he is unaware that you are angry--it just makes him wonder "why"; which has to be aggravating if you won't talk to him about it--it just allows your anger to seethe and fester into a worse situation...putting a burden on the relationship.

By trying to withdraw and avoid him, has to be the most hurtful thing he is experiencing because when you do that, you are cutting him completely out of your life; which could cause him to eventually throw up his hands in frustration and go on to greener pastures.  Unless that is what you want, you had better start talking and confiding in him because working together is the only way to bond in a relationship....avoidance says "goodbye".......